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Do I Still Got It? (Flirting For the Hell of It)

March 12th 2010

Dear NWSO,
I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years. Everything seemed to be going well; we see each other as often as we can since we’re both in school and working. It can be difficult at times but we make it work.
His best friends moved back in the city a [...]

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Can Money Ruin Your Relationship? (Don’t Loan to Lovers)

March 5th 2010

Dear NWSO,
I came across your blog through Jozen’s UntilIGetMarried.com and have been hooked ever since! I can’t wait for ThatsABadLook.com. Sounds like it will be hilarious LOL.
My reason for contacting you was because I had questions that didn’t involve sex, but instead finances and the significant other. My question is: How soon is too [...]

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Can Black Folks Be Racist? (I Wish the World Were Blind)

February 22nd 2010

Sometimes I wish the entire world were blind. That way race wouldn’t be an issue because no one could see what color anyone was. Chances are, though, that wouldn’t make much of a difference. (See 2008’s Blindness).
Based on man’s wicked nature and incessant desire to classify people, places and things, we’d probably find some other [...]

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Is Dating Your BFF a Bad Idea? (A Lesbian Love Triangle)

February 18th 2010

Dear NWSO,
I need HELP! At 18, I decided to date my best friend. I had never thought about being in [lesbian] relationship and I didn’t know how my mom would respond so we kept it a secret.
Well, needless to say we were HOT and HEAVY but only on the low!
We were dating for [...]

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Who’d Date an Angry [Black] Woman? (Only the Lonely)

February 11th 2010

Believe it or not, I read every comment on this site. The same goes for reader mail sent to me at NakedWithSocksOn@gmail.com for story ideas and advice. I’m only one man, though, so of course it may take me a while to catch up on everything.
But stay rest assured, I read everything (even the long [...]

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Would You Break Up a Marriage? (My Married Ex Wants Me)

January 26th 2010

Dear NWSO,
I could use your advice/opinion on a guy that has been pursuing me quite aggressively.
The background on us is that we dated for a year back in college. I was his first and he was my second sexual partner. I still had issues with my ex, so that coupled with me getting pregnant [...]

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She Broke My Heart & My Penis (Handling a Bad Breakup)

January 8th 2010

Dear NWSO,
I need some advice and I’ll be super brief but it’s a long story.
I’ve had two girlfriends—both lasted over four years—and I’ve only had sex with only two people. Both times we were “in love” before having sex. I broke up with my last girlfriend in August ’09 because I felt like I wasn’t [...]

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Do You Need Titles in a Relationship? (Love & Happiness)

January 5th 2010

Dear NWSO,
I’ve been in an “exclusive” relationship (meaning we’re not seeing other people, but we are not BF/GF yet) for a little over a year, but my “companion” hasn’t made any moves to take it a step further by putting a title on it or asking to be in a more committed relationship. When we [...]

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Do All Black Men Want White Women? (Tiger’s Jungle Fever)

December 22nd 2009

Week before last, I finally buckled under the pressure and wrote a blog about Tiger Woods. I don’t know about y’all, but I’m tired of waking up to more “shocking scandal” about the former all-American golfer. Yet, like a train wreck, I sometimes find myself unable to look away.
Still, my plan was to walk away [...]

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Would You Trade Sex For Child Support? Baby Daddy Drama

December 21st 2009

Dear NWSO,
I have baby daddy issues. He and I have known each other for nine years and of the nine we dated off and on, but mostly, we had a sexual relationship. There’s so much to us but here are the highlights: We were friends; I thought I was in love with someone else [...]

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Do Men Respect Women That Swallow? (Deep Throat Divas)

December 11th 2009

Dear NWSO,
I recently came across your blogs and I must say they are amazing!!! You’re an excellent writer and very entertaining—even the one’s that don’t have anything to do with sex! LOL.
My questions is a kinda personal one, but I’m an open gal and not ashamed of anything. I was just wondering if [...]

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Virgin Blues (Do Men Only Want Sex From a Woman?)

December 7th 2009

Dear NWSO,
About two months ago I met a guy on the way to the grocery store. He approached me and we chatted for a bit and at the end of our exchange I offered him my number. He texted me later that day, and we wound up going back and forth on text for a [...]

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