Do All Woman Have Lesbian Fantasies? (It Was a Good Day)

February 10th 2010 in *Wet Wednesdays/Erotica, Guest Socks

Girls in Bed

I know y’all were probably expecting the second chapter of last week’s Wet Wednesdays post, “In the Heat of the Night, Pt. 1” but consider this a interlude as my homegirl Jada Estrella delivers an equally enticing tale. Enjoy

Have you ever had something happen to you so crazy and so against your character that you can’t even believe it’s your story you’re telling? Well, this is one of those events.

Actually when I think about it now, I’m still shocked that I did that.

To her.

Like that.

There.

And then.

The day started off like most Wednesdays do, shower, cup of coffee to go, and off to work. Except somewhere between coffee and go time, I decided to call in sick and get my hair done instead.

It had been an exceptionally hard week this far and I felt like I could use a day off. Not to mention my hair was a hot mess. I threw on a sundress and some flip-flops, and made the five-minute trek to the salon.

Nothing spectacular or out of the ordinary happened in the salon. Women were in and out and everyone seemed to be minding their own business. Feeling guilty about skipping work, I pulled out my laptop and tried to knock out some selling reports while under the dryer.

I’m not sure when she came in but about 20 minutes into my drying session, I felt eyes on me. About eight minutes later, I felt a hand on my exposed thigh.

“Excuse me, I couldn’t help but notice, you seem to be really into your work,” she began. “May I ask what do you do?”

I lifted my eyes up from the screen and over to the smiling woman to my left, and replied, “I’m an event planner.”

“Oh, really? Do you do corporate functions?”

“Yes, that’s my specialty actually.”

“Do you have a card, maybe we can network—I cater.”

“Sure, that would be excellent,” I beamed back. “I’m Gina by the way and you are?”

“Melinda, Melinda Carter, nice to meet you.”

We exchanged cards and like that she was gone.

I repositioned myself back under the dryer and sat for the next 30 minutes with the lingering smell of Melinda’s perfume etched in my memory. Nice, I thought to myself, networking in the salon and getting some work done. What a great morning. Today was turning out to be a good day.

As I walked through the door of my apartment, I got a call on my cell from an unfamiliar number. After staring at it for a moment, I answered: “Hello, this is Gina.”

“Hi, Gina, it’s Melinda Carter, we met earlier in the hair salon, I have a proposal that I think you might be interested in.”

“Oh really, an event?”

“Yes, a friend of mine referred a client and I’m almost sure she needs a event planner. Can we meet to discuss details this afternoon?”

“This afternoon,” I replied.

“Yes, I apologize for the short notice but I want to jump on this before they find someone else.”

“Yes, of course, where can we meet?”

“I’m not sure where you live, but I live about five minutes from the salon we met at,” she explained. “I work from home a lot so we could meet at my apartment if you like.”

“Okay, I’ll meet you there around 4:30.”

Click!

Wow, today really is a good, everything seems to be going in my favor. What are the odds of this woman is giving me business within hours of just meeting?

I need to take more days off.

I arrived at Melinda’s place on time and she welcomed me in with that same warm smile.

“Gina, thanks for coming on such short notice,” she beamed. “Make yourself comfortable, I’ll be right back.”

As I made my way to the couch, I took note of how good Melinda’s apartment smelled and how neatly arranged everything was. A far cry from my little post-dorm apartment.

There was something about her, and this moment that sent a tingle through my body.

In a good way.

Melinda walked back in the room with a bunch of folders in her bosom that she placed them on the table in front of me before joining me on the couch. We immediately began tossing around ideas for the event and after about an hour and a half we just about ready to start working on contracts, when she offered me a glass of wine.

“All this work,” she said. “We deserve a drink.”

As Melinda stood up to make her way to the kitchen, something came over me and I reached out for her hand, gently pulling her back to the couch next to me.

She gave me a knowing glance, like she understood why I grabbed her and what I wanted.

As I held her hand in mine, she reached for my neck and pulled my face into hers. I moved my hand up to fondle her breasts. They were at attention. I’d always been curious to feel a pair not my own.

They were soft.

Inviting.

Sultry.

I couldn’t help myself.

Like a possessed soul, I was pawing all over this stranger. We embraced intently and slowly peeled off the layers of fabric that encased her frame until her bare bosom was exposed to me.

Her nipples were huge and all I wanted to do was pinch them. Her breasts were the most beautiful I had ever seen on another female.

Melinda cradled my head in her bosom like I was her baby and looked at me with passion as I flicked my tongue in circles over her hardened black pearls.

Some crazed feeling had taken over me. Intoxicated by her scent, her maturity, her sexiness, I lowered my head between Melinda’s warm thighs and kissed my way up to her secrecy.

I had never eaten pussy before but had experienced the pleasure enough times from men to wing it. I did what I thought felt good, what I wanted her to do to me.

As my tongue lapped up Melinda’s juices, she caressed my hair with approval and moaned as my head became lost in her thighs.

It seemed like hours.

But only minutes had passed before we were once again in a tangled embrace, followed by her deeply…

Kissing me.

Licking me.

Sucking me.

Tasting the tantalizing remnants of her own pussy on my lips and tongue.

Before.

She entered me.

Like no one had ever done before.

Melinda turned me over and positioned me so that my round ass was inches away from her moistened lips. I rode her mouth as she alternated between grabbing my bouncing tits and my bouncing ass.

Her fingers explored my insides and only intensified their search when she heard me breathing heavy. Melinda parted my lower lips and placed hers over mine in what seemed like a pussy to mouth French kiss.

I was in perfect bliss.

When I felt like I couldn’t take anymore, Melinda kept going until I erupted in ecstasy. Even then she wouldn’t stop, extending my pleasure until my wetness dripped down my thighs on to the couch.

And even then, she didn’t move her thick lips from off my clit until she had her fill of my love on her tongue.

The last thing I heard her say was, “Come for mama.”

I listened.

And followed her orders, precisely.

Once she was done having her way with me, Melinda stood up—naked, wet, and satisfied—to get my glass of wine.

When she returned, I signed my name on the contract’s dotted line, and no more words were said.

I had a feeling it’d be a good day, but goddamn.

To be continued…?

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on? Would you consider it? Do most women have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy? Ladies, have you ever wanted to caress a pair of breasts beside your own? Do you think that you could pleasure a woman better than a man could? Do you ever think it’s wise to mix business with pleasure? What would you do if someone of the same sex came on to you and you weren’t interested? Fellas, would you call your girl a cheater if she slept with another woman? What did you think of Jada’s Wet Wednesdays submission? Are you more thirsty for part two of her story or mine?

Speak your piece…

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74 comments to...
“Do All Woman Have Lesbian Fantasies? (It Was a Good Day)”
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wasabi29

Dayumn Son !!

Anyways, to answer your question, yes I do have some lesbian fantasies especially if I come across a lady who’s really gorgeous. Women love to hate but if I see a really pretty one, my mind starts working. Hahah !

But then again, it’s not something I would act upon though. I literally and figuratively don’t have the balls to do so ! lol.


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Hadassah

damm freaky as hell. what is up with everyone going for the same team? damm so Rihanna says she loves women but she’s not gay and now this? are there any straight ppl left? anyways have fun


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ausfahrt

Leading research show same-sex couples (lesbians and gay males) have better sex than heterosexuals. Gays are:
1. more likely to take their time;
2. more likely to pay close attention to their partner’s pleasure and sexual responses, and in fact to get their own arousal from it;
3. more likely to lavish attention on their partner’s whole bodies, not just their genitals; and
4. much more likely to talk easily, openly, and more often about what kinds of sexual activities they did and didn’t enjoy.
5. BONUS: more open to exploration

In essence, a gay man would satisfy a hetero female better than a straight brotha. Brothas should jot down the above tips.


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nymphette

omfg! that was one hot ass story. i think i am wet for real jeeeeez. dayum homie.


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Hadassah

@ ausfahrt hell no I don’t want no gay man sexing me. I don’t care how good the sex will be. i can’t wrap my head around me sexing a gay dude just to get an O


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Righteous Mama

@ wasabi29 DITTO! Lesbian fantasies FOR DAYS. lol. I haven’t acted on them either but not because I’m a prude (I also wouldn’t exactly call myself “straight”) I just know I would never want to be in a relationship with a woman. Like EVER. Which would mean I would only be sexing her and leaving her. And that doesn’t seem right to me. I’ll stick with my fantasies. That’s the great thing about fantasies. You can be moral-free while daydreaming. Me sleeping with a woman would just be me being a super freak and I figure I should have SOME limits. lol. It’s nice to read about though! Good job, Jada!

@ausfahrt A gay man would satisfy a hetero-female better than a straight brotha? I dunno bout that one.


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Spinster

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?
- Yep.

Would you consider it?
- Yep.

No lesbian fantasies here though. Got plenty of love for my LGBTQ folks; however, having those kinds of fantasies just isn’t my thing. Men (in general) can be taught. *shrugs*

If a woman came on to me, I’d be polite and say that I’m not interested. No need to be rude about it. *shrugs*


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Hadassah

hell I’m being outnumbered. damm


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wasabi29

@ Righteous Mama I’m like super curious though if a woman would actually treat me better than a guy. Keep telling my boyfriend, I might leave him for a girl someday if he keeps giving me stress ! Of course I’m just joking but I’m also really curious ! Hahah !


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Righteous Mama

@wasabi29 I know you’re just playing but I dunno. When it comes to relationships, I think the sex may be different but when it comes to how people treat each other in relationships I don’t think that has anything to do with orientation. Lesbian relationships can be just as dysfunctional. I agree with Spinster to a degree. Men can be taught. But who has that kind of time? lol. I kid.


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nymphette

@righteous mama i’m like you i would NEVER want to be in relationship with a woman. But i can so see me getting my freak on with her and then send her back to whereth she cometh from. but then when i read stuff like this i can’t help but think long and hard about it …like i wouldn’t mind someone making me have come dripping on their couch.


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Righteous Mama

True lame confession: When I was in college I attempted to kiss a woman one night while REALLY intoxicated. Didn’t know her. We were sitting on a couch, in the cut, back of the club. Nobody was looking. I thought I could steal a kiss. She fronted though. LOL. REALLY lame now that I think about it. smh.


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Caribeza

Definitely have gay fantasies. Blonde chick in first pic has legs for days :) … I tell my close friends that I have a bi eye, but a straight pussy.

lol @ “I literally and figuratively don’t have the balls to do so ! lol.”

I think this way too, but the main thing that prevents me from taking a walk on the other side, I’m ashamed to say, is I’m squeamish re fluids. With guys a condom kinda helps esp. with oral sex plus it solves the whole sexual health issue. With women, the female condom or a dental dam just seems really unsexy!

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?
Yep

Do most women have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy?
Probably in the same proportion that men have gay (man on man) fantasies. It’s all dependent on the openness of the person.

Ladies, have you ever wanted to caress a pair of breasts beside your own?
One of the interesting things about attraction is that sometimes it’s based on differences. I have boobs and no ass, so I tend to lust after women with long legs and apple bottoms. In fantasies, I tend to envision gripping ass more than caressing boobs. So using the want to caress boobs leaves a certain sector out.

Do you think that you could pleasure a woman better than a man could?
Nope, if the level skills and willingness to learn your partner are close then it’s more dependent on mutual attraction. Not everyone is for everyone.

Do you ever think it’s wise to mix business with pleasure?
I think it’s possible in probably .001% of the people who actually consider it. It takes a special type of mind to control the impulse to take things personally.

What would you do if someone of the same sex came on to you and you weren’t interested?
Smile and let them down gently, just like I’d do for a guy.

What did you think of Jada’s Wet Wednesdays submission?
Awesome!

Are you more thirsty for part two of her story or mine?
Hers actually, but it’s probably cause I’m a hater for long term teasers. You can tease me up to a certain point, but if it gets past that point, I better be getting some sex before the day ends. :-t


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Righteous Mama

@nymphette Girl. Stop it! I’m trying to behave. LOL.


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nymphette

why am i up at like 2 am on this blog? ok i just got put on to this site like a month ago and never really paid attention to wet wednesdays before (this isht right here)

If a girl hit on me and i wasn’t down i would say thanks because its a compliement but no thanks. but if she was fly and sexy and/ or turned me on, i would go with it.

Jada if you are reading…hell yeah what happens next guuuurl?
@ righteous mama i feel like we are playing true confessions game lol.

i once went on a blind date with a chick.


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wasabi29

@ Girls

The most I did, was like kiss a girl when I was drunk. hehe, but gone are my drunk days. So yeah, I don’t really have much reason as to why I wanna kiss girls now except for being curious. And yeah, I have no ass too, being asian and all, so when I see a fly lady with a booty , I feel kinda turned on as well. HAHAH !

And yeah, sometimes guys just take like such a long time to get it you know ? Once they get you, they feel comfortable and you have the tendency to feel unwanted anymore.

But of course, being in a relationship with a girl might not be any diff. I don’t know, we need some bi-ladies with experience in the house ! Maybe they can tell us somethings. lol.


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lola289

lol! funny comments… crazy story… yea I might be a bit ‘bi’ in my mind…or mayb just horny! :)

I appreciate both genders. If ur hot then yup I gotta look… but I gotta say …mmm the male species… yummy!


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Righteous Mama

Yes, we are playing true confessions. But because I have some really solid friendships with my lesbian sistren, I can tell you they don’t all appreciate the experimental types, which is why I don’t play. You know women are emotional and it’s not nice to play with a woman’s emotions. Just because you are attracted to a woman’s beauty and sexuality doesn’t mean you’ll be able to see it all the way through. Most times, I think “straight” women would just back out and that’s not cool.

@ Wasabi29 Whatever you do, make wise choices based on your true sexual/emotional/spiritual preferences not choices based on a desire to feel wanted. I say choose a better man. :)


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alexa

i feel like this story took me for a loop cuz i thought that the lady whose house it was would be the one to initate.

i just let my bf read this to ask him what he would do if i came home one day and told him i ate some random lady from the hair salons pussy. he said ” how would you feel if I came home saying I ate some random woman from the car wash’s pussy?”

so yea it is cheating if it is sex outside of your relationship man or woman.
he also said that if that ever happens to call him immediately.

he has been asking me if i would ever do a 3 some . i keep saying hell no because i can’t see myself eating pussy and i would get a little jealous to see him eating another one, so i guess that’s a no. i will stick to reading about it and fantasizing about it than risk my relationship over it.

@nymphette i she know she is BI she needs to come out the closet lmao. ( my cousin)


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Elle

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?
- Work? More like school … LoL

Do most women have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy?
- I can only speak for myself and maybe my circle of close friends but there are no lesbian fantasies going around our heads…AT ALL *shivering in disgust*

Ladies, have you ever wanted to caress a pair of breasts beside your own?
- *throwing up in my mouth a little* The only boobs in the bedroom are mines. Sawry.

Do you ever think it’s wise to mix business with pleasure?
- Don’t shit where you eat is all I’m going to say.

What would you do if someone of the same sex came on to you and you weren’t interested?
- Give them a bewildered look and a “No thank you”.

I guess I am as straight as they come. Oh and um, a gay man being able to satisfy me better? In theory – maybe. In reality, not likely. I couldn’t get over the fact that his dick has been places…


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ausfahrt

Fact: Straight brothas are under ENORMOUS social pressure and anxiety to perform sexually and with high sexual performance expectations from women.

Straight Black men experience crippling sexual social pressure. All the above, combined with a dysfunctional sexual social construct (rule book):
1. what Black men can do and not do,
2. what’s considered a real man v. a boy,
3. acts women consider gay/DL or questionable,
4. to include anxiety over his own penis size and performance techniques.

This is a recipe for stress, uneasiness, irritation etc. And we wonder why some brothas act out violently. Sistas, lighten up on my straight brothas . I know – I’ve been there but never to return.

And the answer is NO – social pressure did not cause me to choice homosexuality! It’s clearly NOT a choice!


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Classic Ruby

This was an awesome story Jada!

Its funny because only 10% of people are 100% straight and only 10% of people are 100% gay. Everyone else falls somewhere in between, whether it’s all out sexual acts, random fantasies that arouse you, or unwanted arousal at homoerotic porn scenes (actual studies have been done). And considering that so many men express a desire to see lesbian action and since it’s so acceptable, its no wonder that many more women are expressing and feeling comfortable with these fantasies and explorations.

But as has been said, its pretty unfair, and also very insulting, to women who are legitimately bisexual or lesbian because you make their sexuality seem like a choice, or like a game, when for many of them it was a huge struggle and they have met many obstacles along the way because they came out. I say for any woman who identifies as straight, or who would mess around with a woman but never take it to a relationship level, please do it in private and with someone who knows your intentions.

One thing people don’t think about is how hard it is for women who are legitimately heterosexual to be believed. I live in a city where its pretty much normal for women to be up on each other in public and otherwise, boyfriends or not. And I have been hit on millions of times, sometimes casually, sometimes a little more directly…ick. Nothing wrong with different sexual orientations, but I am NOT in any way attracted to women, nor do I find fantasies of lesbian encounters a turn on. It just doesn’t do it for me. The idea of eating pussy actually makes me nauseous, and the only boobs I get off on are my own lol. Not to say I don’t appreciate a woman’s beauty or sexual appeal, because I do, but not in a way that makes me hot and bothered.

If I ever had a threesome (which I wouldn’t…as much as I fantasize about it VERY often lol) it would be with two men who are all about ME…any sexual interest in each other…the mood would be over. idk, in this day and age men are doing anal with women now, so its not just a gay thing (and not a reason I wouldn’t deal with a guy). That’s not my issue. I think I could deal with a bisexual guy if he was straight up about it, but as long as I never had to talk about or see anything that involved his interest in men…but I guess I would have to be understanding to a certain extent cause Hey! I LOVE dick, so I can understand where he’s coming from!! lol….as long as he wasn’t a whore and kept it wrapped up, and isn’t cheating (my basic rules anyway) we’d be good to go… ;-)


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QuoteMan

@caribeza: “do most females have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy? Probably in the same proportion that men have gay fantasy”

That’s just nasty, you just ruined wet Wednesday for me thanks for nothing. SMH


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InNeedofJamison

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?
- More than once.

If a woman came on to me, I would be flattered but polite tell her I’m strictly dickly.


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distinguishedgentlewoman

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?

Yep. And it was worth every minute. I’d do it again in a heartbeat.

Do most women have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy?

I can’t speak for most women. But the closest I ever came to having a lesbian fantasy was the time I had an intense dream about me and Whoopi Goldberg tag-teaming this gorgeous male model from the ’80s. Why Whoopi you ask? I haven’t a clue. I don’t even remember what the man’s face looked like. But I do remember his beautiful body sandwiched between me and…Whoopi.

Ladies, have you ever wanted to caress a pair of breasts beside your own?

Nope. Never. I even hate when a woman’s breast brush up against my back in a crowded bus or subway. Not a good feeling.

Do you think that you could pleasure a woman better than a man could?

Nope. I’m not quite that creative.

Do you ever think it’s wise to mix business with pleasure?

Don’t see anything wrong with it, as long as both (all) parties want the same thing.

What would you do if someone of the same sex came on to you and you weren’t interested?

In my younger years, I had a woman stare at my crotch throughout my entire commute on the subway. I also had a female “bouncer” spend a little too much time “examining” my crotch area at a club in the ’90s. Both made me feel very uncomfortable and violated at the time.

What did you think of Jada’s Wet Wednesdays submission?

Jada did a great job. Would love to know what happens next… In two weeks.

Are you more thirsty for part two of her story or mine?

I’d hungrily and thirstily awaiting part deux of your story. Speaking of cock teasing: Why are you prolonging our agony by making us wait so long?


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moonstarz

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?

Yep! Usually a half day.

Do most women have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy?

I know I don’t.

Ladies, have you ever wanted to caress a pair of breasts beside your own?

No, if I was a lesbian I’d be as assgirl.

Do you think that you could pleasure a woman better than a man could?

No.

Do you ever think it’s wise to mix business with pleasure?

With that right person that can be fun.

What would you do if someone of the same sex came on to you and you weren’t interested?

I usually get very nervous when that happens and I panic.

Fellas, would you call your girl a cheater if she slept with another woman?

My ex feels that is cheating.

What did you think of Jada’s Wet Wednesdays submission?

Very nice story Jada!

Are you more thirsty for part two of her story or mine?

Part two of yours!


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nuttinnice

I have 2 admit that I have a “bi” eye. I notice certain features or body parts I like on a woman all the time. It wasn’t until recently that I actually thought about having sex with a women. This woman works in restaurant I frequent, and 4 whatever reason, one day I looked at her and got really turned on! She’s not the type of woman I would normally look at because she’s manly looking. She just looks really hard – like she could kick some ass! If she were a man she’d be a bad boy type. When I got home I fantasized about her pleasing me and had one of the best orgasms ever. A part of me wants 2 act on my fantasies but I know I never would. Nice story, Jada!


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ms. j starr

very sexy today! good work :)


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Dd Man With A Plan

thanks to the ladies who have shared their true confessions and fantasies. Y’all are REAL women who can keep it real. I don’t know about the studies and reports Classic Ruby & Ausfahrt speak of but I’m one of the 10% that’s 100% man; No male fantasies here…EVER. But I respect the right of others to do their thing whatever than might be. Woman on woman sex can be HOT–for a minute, male on male sex is NEVER hot to me, which is one reason I won’t EVER watch broke back mountain…..smdh. Naw, I don’t like or want to see dudes kissing, holding hands–noneofthat. Call me what you will but I do have a severe negative reaction to guy on guy anything. and I’m not all that into seeing women kiss…but fondling one another, yeah, I can see women doin that shyt. I have turned down a 3some bcuz ultimately, I’m just a one woman man; I don’t like sharing. lol


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Tunde

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on? Would you consider it?

of course i have ;)

Fellas, would you call your girl a cheater if she slept with another woman?

if i wasn’t somewhere in the equation then yes i would consider it cheating.

What did you think of Jada’s Wet Wednesdays submission?

very good read.

Are you more thirsty for part two of her story or mine?

when is it going to be? lol


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Dd Man With A Plan

As far as Ausfahrt reading a study that says there is sooo much pressure on a man to perform…..Yo, I RISE to the challenge…..pun intended! I thrive on THAT type of challenge. I’m not bragging (ok, yes I am) *I make SURE that MY baby-gurl has multiple O’s 85% of the time, and at least one O every time out!!! …even during quickies.. So “working it out” and keeping a relationship from becoming stale mentally and physically is how a man like myself stays on top of his game. If my woman came home with this story….I’m not sure how I’d feel, but I’d have to ask her if she would act upon other fantasies she might have. I’d have to wonder about how impulsive she might be about joining other ppl in a 3some, or other fantasies she might have. I would have to be comfortable with where she would draw the line in order to know if we could still be together bcuz it is cheating if you’re in a monogamous relationship.


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da ThRONe

I can only hope my girl has “bi” fantasies. LOL

As far as cheating goes. If my girl is having any intimate dealing whatsoever with anybody without my knowledge its cheating.


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da ThRONe

Im with DC Man. I dont know much about the study so I wont dispute it ,but I will speak for myself and say I(as a heterosexual) dont have a problem doing anything sexually.


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da ThRONe

Oh and as far as taking a day off from work for sex. Seriously doubt it. It would have to be a once in a life time type thing. I should mention my most recent sexually incounters(I use the word recent very very very very very very loosely) hasnt been worth skipping work for so that might have something to do with my answer. Plus I really hate missing work.


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rwifey

kudos Jada, amazing visuals!!

kudos NWSO for giving us Jada

i went to work 3 hours late once, choosing to spend time with someone instead, it was worth it.

enjoying the plug to my socket, why, theres nothing like it

but i can’t front

whenever i see two women kiss, i am instantly turned on


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Mocha Puddin

Hello gals/guys, this is my first post & amazingly a topic that has crossed my mind. I’ve alaways been curious but the thought of being w/another female seemed somewhat disguting. To make a long story short I had my 1st three some w/my fiancee & another woman 5yrs ago. I was nervous but in the end all the previous curiousity & stomache aches and what will he think of me, I’m I a lesbian now? These questions/concerns were tossed to the side. The experience wasnt bad but I dont see myself w/a woman permanetly nor being intimate w/another woman w/o my fiancee present b/c that would be cheating.
Oh I 4got 2 mention Ill never kissed a woman.
Its funny b/c I mentioned it to one of my best friends & she said girl been there done that i was like damn I thought I was doin somethin!


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b.better

Yes i think all women have lesbian fantasies. Its natural to be curious. I can honestly say that I had a friend who I always deep down wanted to mess with. She is absolutely gorgeous and we’d always have these weird moments while studying well it felt like she wanted to try something but never acted on it. Even though we both had boyfriends something was always there between us but we’d end up doing something else like painting each others nails or doing each others hair. Sometimes I regret not acting on what was there and I’m sure she does too.

As far as getting hit on by women and not being interested that has definitely happened to me a lot. I use to live in Baltimore which seems like the LGBT capitol of the east coast, and I use to get hit on a lot by those manly looking women. That totally grossed me out, I feel like if ever in my life I’m going to be with a woman she’s going to look like a woman not some woman playing a man… if thats the case I’d rather be with a man.


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Nise

Have you ever taken a day off from work to get your groove on?
Yes, I am in a career which allows me to use my leave liberally.
Would you consider it?
If the sex is really good, I don’t mind
Do most women have lesbian fantasies or is that just a male fantasy?
Not sure, I just know I am straight heterosexual and I just love men.
Ladies, have you ever wanted to caress a pair of breasts beside your own?
No
Do you think that you could pleasure a woman better than a man could?
No, I don’t think so.
Do you ever think it’s wise to mix business with pleasure?
It depends on if I will see that person again because we have many people who travel to our main offices. In general, I would say no.
What would you do if someone of the same sex came on to you and you weren’t interested?
I would immediately let them know to keep it moving because I am not into that.
Fellas, would you call your girl a cheater if she slept with another woman?
N/A
What did you think of Jada’s Wet Wednesdays submission?
I was looking forward to reading something on the heterosexaul side.
Are you more thirsty for part two of her story or mine?
No, I had enough. Is there a site that caters strictly to heterosexuals. I mean if you are into this lifestyle that is your business but it’s not something I want to read about.


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NWSO

@Nise

LOL at “Is there a site that caters strictly to heterosexuals”.

So one “different” post makes the entire site non-heterosexual friendly? SMH

I’d like to think NWSO caters to people, regardless of their gender/race/sexuality/religion. Not every post is for every person, but I like diversity and mixing the pot otherwise it gets boring.

Talking about the blog not my affinity for women. That’ll stay a constant. LOL.

hopefully tomorrow will be more to your liking


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da ThRONe

I must say Im surprize at all the ladies who have those feelings. It’s like the common man paradise up in here today.


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nu nu

my boo asked me for a menage for his birthday – which is soon. i have never done more than kiss a chic one drunk night at a club as a dare and she grabbed my ass. but we were both drunk. i am scared as hell to go through with it plus i don’t even know where i’d find a girl. but the point is i think we are all sexual beings and sometimes our minds and bodies get turned on by different things. not everyone can admit it, but within ourselves we should be honest enough to acknowledge it. when i am home alone sometimes i check out some things on the interenet just out of curiosity . DOES NOT MEAN I AM A LESBIAN. I appreciated this story because the main character seemed like a normal girl and that situation she was in wasn’t like some crazy off the wall thing. lots of people get hit on and everynow and then curiosity gets the best of people.
you find some good writers and interesting ppl on this site. glad i stopped by.
i liked this topic and jada estrellas storytelling.


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Nise

@NWSO, My question wasn’t anything personal against your site. I enjoy reading almost all of the posts regardless of whether or not they apply to me or not. People should live their lives in a manner that is comfortable to them and what they enjoy. My question about a site dedicated to heterosexual was an open question that I asked out of my own curiosity as I am seeking to find more people on the Internet that I have a common bond with. I definitely didn’t poise that question to say what your site is or isn’t.


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NWSO

@Nise

So you’re trying to cheat me for another blog? **Tear**

Lol, just messing w/u


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QuoteMan

Ladies, you are doing a great job with your stories. Keep it going.

If any dude has one please keep that mess to yourself. Lol


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Cho Woods

I love this post. I think a lot of women who are comfortable with themselves thought about it and acted on it at some point. To me its so erotic and free.


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lola289

sigh… heres hoping for one day when sexuality won’t be such a deep issue with people.

mayb its becuz im a air sign…


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V@n3ss@

Interesting story…. though in this day and age a random sex story (hookup) without protection (may it be straight or gay)… freaks me out!!!
also.. i agree with the comment that life isn’t all black and white (like you have to be 100% straight and 100% gay.. doesnt really work that way).
I am straight, I only date men, I only have sex with men.. but I have experimented with women and it was good, but it confirmed that I am in love with dick..
1st time: with a good friend of mine after a night of partying we kinda just tumbled in bed… she gave me one of the best oral of my life.. but I just couldnt return the favor…. it freaked me out! Sad for her, but I got off and feel asleep… yep… we are still great friends btw. She is bi-sexual but will never come out of the closet due to her conservative muslim family….
2nd time: was a 3some with an ex and his new gf… wasnt some girl on girl.. we kinda were both on him.. great night for him though!!! it was hot to see him fuck her and it was hot for her to see him fuck me..

either… im more impatient about your story.. and yes I have taken a day off work (fake cough story) to have an all day sex marathon.. was highly enjoyable.. recommend it to everyone..
I do get sexually stimulated by a woman… but at the end of the day.. I do only want a man!!!

good tip though.. girlz if you are thinking of having a 3some… be the other girl ( the one that isnt in a relationship)…. at the end of the end you dont want to see your man fucking another girl!! so be that girl and leave the drama to someone else.. good story good pics…


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Happyleoness

That story, only made me want to find my MAN.


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Mocha Puddin

To nu nu, maybe u should try surprising ur boo w/a trip to hedo. After a few drinks its all down hill.
I surprised mine and it was a great experience


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SassyNoLA

Research has established a bisexual arousal pattern for women; whereas men have a very defined homosexual or heterosexual pattern.

Groups: Heterosexual men; homosexual men; heterosexual women; homosexual women
Experiment: Each group were shown straight porn, homosexual male porn, and lesbian porn while seated in a chair that registered their sexual arousal (subconscious). They were also asked to indicate whether they were turned on (conscious).
Results: Heterosexual men were turned on only by the straight and lesbian porn (porn involving women). Homosexual men were turned on only by the homosexual male porn and straight porn (porn involving men). Both homosexual women and heterosexual women were turned on by all three types of porn, although they only indicated being turned on by porn that corresponded to their identified sexuality.

http://www.scienceblog.com/cms/study_suggests_difference_between_female_and_male_sexuality


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da ThRONe

@SassyNoLA

The only problem I have with this research is it doesnt take into affect the impact of a person culture on their acceptance to all thingd. Its well known that women can go over to the other side or claim being “BI” with little if any ramifications. And for men in our society your either straight or gay with no line.


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V

Speaking as a bisexual woman, before I became sexual with women I used to fantasize all the time. Then one day I acted on it. I think that in some ways I can pleasure a woman better than a man because I’m a woman so I know what another woman likes. But if you are referring to other than physical then no. I even have desires that only a man can fulfill. I look at it as being with a woman as an appetizer but being with a man is the meal. If I’m in a relationship I would consider it cheating if I step out on my mate with another woman if we don’t have that understanding. Honestly speaking, although I am sexually attracted to women I would never be in a relationship with one. It’s hard enough being in a relationship with a man then you add another set of hormones, etc. No thanks!

I’m looking forward to part 2 of both stories!


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da ThRONe

@V

I take this line as a personal challenge to my manhood.

“I think that in some ways I can pleasure a woman better than a man because I’m a woman so I know what another woman likes.”

I took a class @ my local Y for pleasing women. And I have a merit badge in eatting pussy dont make me break out the trophy case!


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mochapuddin

Sorry da throne sum men r great pleasers but no one knows a womans body better than a woman unless there a Gyn


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SassyNoLA

@da throne

the heterosexual women who were physically aroused by lesbian porn did not identify themselves as being aroused by it. they only identified being aroused by heterosexual porn; however, their bodies reacted w/ arousal while viewing lesbian porn. the fact that their self-identified and biological arousal DIFFER clearly demonstrates that their physical arousal/reaction was not a choice. when they had a choice (which one can argue IS influenced by culture or society), they only identified being aroused by heterosexual porn. i’m just going to assume that you didn’t have the chance to read the article in its entirety because your response to that research doesn’t make sense considering that both phsychological (influenced by society and culture) and physical (not choice or influenced but your body’s response) arousal was measured. they DIFFERED. again, when given a choice to identify, heterosexual women identified as heterosexual. when body’s arousal was measured, their bodies reacted with arousal to lesbian porn. this PHYSICAL reaction to porn not aligned with self-identified sexuality was NOT found in men clearly revealing a difference in the BRAINS of men and women, not cultural influence or pressure. i give up. i just think you have a different view of research. i’m coming from the vantage point of a social scientist so research is my education, work, and life. you seem to either not understand research, measures, and controls or you just generally don’t respect research. we’ll just have to agree to disagree on all things research related.


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da ThRONe

@SassyNoLA

This goes back to sexuality and where it is developed(which we dont need to go into again). My thoery on sexuality is that its learned. Meaning that female are more susceptible to being “BI” because society is more lenient on females bi-sexuality.


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da ThRONe

@mochapuddin

Ma Im willing to put the title up any time any place!


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ms. j starr

@ da throne
you must have had a lot of practice ! so confident!


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V

@ da Throne I like a challenge and we could definitely put that to the test. LOL!


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shor5ty1

Good post. I would like to hear part two to both of them. But anyone that knows me knows that i’ve been curious forever but have never acted on it like someone said earlier I don’t think I have the balls. But I love dick and will not switching anytime soon. May wish I drunk so I could one day “Blame It On The Alcohol.” but since I don’t. I’m good where I’m at.


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Curious80sbaby

Wow that was so sexy.


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Rastaman

Women are f’ing beautiful and so I can understand if my girl would find another woman attractive. Ladies I spend a lot of time looking at women on the street and I know I would not screw everyone of them but I still think they are beautiful.


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Geoforie

This blog has taken an interesting turn! I have had a few experiences with women with and without a man. I must say I LOVE DICK, but there’s nothing like a woman’s soft lips and tongue on my breasts, nipples and pussy. Am I Bi, yes. Is that such a bad thing? No


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Mocha Puddin

@da throne
Im not Bi but I put my $ on V.
Men usually do to women what they thought pleased the last woman and the one prior to. W/o women directing u as to what feel goods men would continue assuming.


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God's Gift to the Earth

I second that @ Geoforie


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Sheri

Wow… that story was HOT! Yes I have taken off to get my groove on. YES I have had lesbian fantasies. Have I acted on them, no. Will I act on themin the future, probably not. Have I found other women attractive…yes. I am a believer that the reason why people are displeased in a relationship is because of lack of communication. If you can’t tell or even show your lover what you want and/or love how can you expect to be pleased? If they aren’t willing to put in the work…leave em.


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Sheboneka

First tym i had these dreams i freaked out, had to research to ascertain some sexuality-dream oriented issues. I’m so glad I’m not alone, i have dreamt of gals whose faces aren’t revealed in the dreams and yes I’d love to know what it really might feel like.


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TriniQueen

that got me soooooo wet….excellent work Jada.

I had fantasies about it, being with a woman. I even told my husband and he keeps telling me I have gay tendecies.
I know its just curiousity because when u look at lesbian porn, they are so sensual and gentle it has me thinking what it would be like to do that.

Unfortunately I no longer feel that way since I am married to the greatest man in the world.


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Curious Valencia

I have definately played hookie for some nookie.

I’ve had lesbian fantacies and get turned on by watching lesbian porn. I don’t know if I will live out my curiosity since 1. I’m afraid of catching a std/sti; all them juices flowing can’t be 100% safe. And 2 with all these hidden cameras and sex videos popping out I don’t want to be unknowly staring in one. Lastly 3 I will definately have to be a pillow princess.


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ItsJustMe

this post sounds too familiar in my life. she wasn’t a stranger but what happened kinda snuck up on me. before i could stop it every touch felt too good to say no. so i kept going. i guess when you young you free yourself in your sexuality. but that night i don’t think i will ever forget.


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undressingHER

Nah. I think a lot of girls are curious, just because it’s been pumped into their heads, but there are women I’ve met who feel that it is flat out disgusting. They feel the same way about two women as I do about two men. You can kind of tell, sometimes, just by a womans reaction when you suggest something of the sort.


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guttaman

i dont want my girlfriends to be bi or lesbian in any sort of way. give me a women who is strickly dickly. i dont want no confused broad. smh


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MsCurvyWitDreads904

Have you ever skipped work to get your groove on?
Well who hasnt?
Do all women have lesbian fantasies?
I can’t speak for all women. I have been in a relationship men and also dated a woman long term at one point. So I had a chance to live out that fantasy lol.
Do you fantasize about the breasts?
Been there and done it. And yes other breasts are as soft as you imagined they were…
Do you think you could please a woman better than a man?
I might hurt egos if I answer this..but women do know what women want. In terms of passion or foreplay..the little details women appreciate…another women remembers that. I’ll just say Im confident in my ability.
What would you do if approached by someone of same sex but not interested?
The same thing I’d do if it were a man..they’re both human last time i checked..one is not an alien..
Anticipating next volumes?
Keep em coming. Spice it up….its good for variety. People’s fantasies vary..so you have to cater to all kinds…I like the switch up this week.


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Rahnie

There’s nothing wrong with loving dick but having a crush on pussy. Me and my hubby have a wonderful relationship & he knows that I have an attraction to women even tho I don’t act on it…… ok, I did have a sexual relationship with a woman for about 2 months (way b4 i got married) and it was great! We were both curious and for the first month were addicted to each other. I was licking her almost every nite. When the second month rolled around we were coming to our senses and decided not to “play” anymore. But it was fun while it lasted. My husband is the truth in the bedroom!! But when I masterbate, I fantasize about a woman… I just get off better. ;-)






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