Have You Ever Had a Perfect Jump-Off? (My Special Friend)

January 13th 2010 in *Wet Wednesdays/Erotica, Guest Socks

Grippin Ass

Courtesy of Dave Jackson

It started off as playful banter. Janice and I sat and talked for a while about how we kept missing each other. At some point in our lives we were always the odd person out in a relationship, but we still made “time” for each other—if you know what I mean. It was never anything so detrimental to our situations, but we were “special” friends.

Janice and I talked about how we felt when we first met each other, how we tried not to like each other and ultimately how that played in friendship to this day. I reminded her of the first time I let her see it…

I sat on the bed, leaning back and slowly loosened my belt, unbuckling my pants and pulling it out.

We talked about how she played with it…

She shook it and stroked it until it was awake.

I recalled how she looked at me, laughing and saying, “If you would’ve told me you were packing like this I would’ve given you some already.”

We laughed like we did when it happen.

At that time Janice was with someone, so we were really just playing around.

She stroked me gently before putting me in her mouth. She blushed at the recollection and apologized for being so forward. I, of course, didn’t mind in the slightest.

What made this conversation so odd was that it had been a long time since Janice and I had been intimate with each other. We had decided a long time ago to be friends and regardless of how much I truly loved licking her pussy and she enjoyed having it licked (because her man wasn’t doing it like me), we had made peace with our decision.

We chatted all day long, not just about our past intimacy, but also about our lives. We had lunch, talked some more. We watched a movie, talked some more until the dusk descended upon us. We returned to my place to listen to some music and talk some more.

I lit candles, shuffled through my CD collection for something that we used to rock out to back in the day. I put on some Intro, the first CD, the one that was like the premier new jack album of its day.

I sat on the floor and Janice lay across the bed. She was short, about 5’1” dark chocolate complexion and compact. Still, her ass and thighs were grown from running track.

We talked for about an hour and the CD changer had switched from new jack soul to jazz piano. Janice looked at the time and said, “I should be going.”

Easing herself off the bed, she straightened out her jeans and blouse before revealing, “I miss you, boo.”

Janice wasn’t facing me so she couldn’t see me smiling. I knew what she missed and walked up behind her, inching down towards her ear, “I miss you, too.”

I wrapped my arms around her waist and bolted my fingers together. Gently, I kissed her neck and shoulders. My hands rose up her blouse, slowly caressing her breasts.

Janice moaned with excitement.

I pulled her blouse up with my left hand and discovered she had no bra on. I licked my fingertips and rubbed them across her nipples. She moaned again. My other hand stroked her stomach and entertained myself with her belly ring before traveling down to unbuttoned her jeans.

I pulled down her zipper and spread her legs apart. I reached deep inside her panties to rub on her clit, causing Janice to moan once more. I turned her around so I could see her face. It was clear from that dreamy look in her eyes that she was open, and so was I.

I grabbed her and pulled Janice close and kissed her softly. Our tongues danced as I tightened my grip around her waist. I put both of my hands around her plump chocolate ass and lifted her off the ground. I took her petite breast into my mouth, while Janice ran her fingers through my fade. She whispered in my ear, “You know how I like it, boo.”

I looked up at her with my mouth still full and nodded.

real men eat pussy

I placed Janice back on her feet and turned her around again so that her back was to me. I gripped her loosened jeans and slowly pulled them down to her knees revealing her luscious apple bottom.

I loved Janice’s ass. I loved to watch her walk with or without clothes on. Frozen in time for a moment, I snapped out of my haze and promptly smacked her on the ass. I curled my thumb into the lowest part of Janice’s panties and pulled them out of my way. With her moist pussy exposed, I licked my fingers and stroked her from the back to the front and back again.

Janice tried to step out of her jeans and panties but I wouldn’t let her. I gently pushed her forward towards the bed and instinctually she positioned herself into the doggy style position. Janice looked over her right shoulder waiting for what was to come.

I stood directly behind Janice and she lowered her head, raising her ass in the air in anticipation. I inched in closer to her and placed my hands between her legs so that I could massage her clit some more.

Next, I dropped down to my knees and before Janice knew it my tongue was in her asshole. I rolled my face in it, pushing my tongue deeper. I placed both hands on her butt cheeks and spread them apart even further. As my work continued, Janice buried her face deeper in the mattress as her fingers grasped the sheets tightly.

I treated her asshole like a secret video game code, as I licked Up, Down, Left, Left, Right, Up, Down, Down, Right, Left, Right…

Janice writhed in ecstasy and her body began to spasm uncontrollably. She tried to resist, but could not escape my grip until I was good and ready. I leaned in, one hand holding her ass open while still licking her forbidden zone.

My tongue dipped below to taste the gap between her pussy and ass before slowly working its way back up to the top of her crack. That’s when I snuck two fingers in her pussy to double her pleasure.

It must have gotten good to her because Janice began to go back to her Jamaican roots, slow grindin’ it back on me. Reaching over her shoulder, she pulled me in closer and I willingly obliged.

Janice started moaning and breathing heavy. I caressed her clit harder until Janice reached an orgasm. Still panting heavy, she turned around to face me. Her forehead was full of sweat, and her eyes were filled with the look of revenge, victory, ecstasy, love and friendship all in one.

Now I was ready to get started.

Our eyes locked and we shared smiles as I slide her jeans and lace panties the rest of the way off. I left her in only her blouse and socks.

I wasn’t in the mood for talking—I wanted to finish her off, to put the spit shine on this open jar of sweet pussy. I wanted her to feel like I owned every square inch of her flesh when I put my mouth on her.

I rose up to kiss her and licked her nipples again. One by one, passionately and intently, before reaching down and spreading apart her pussy in search of her buried treasure. Pretty in pink, her throbbing clit stared back at me and I devoured her.

My licks are slow, then fast—all focused on one specific spot. Since I’m such a good friend, I make sure licking is not all I do as I suck on Janice’s pussy. I glide my tongue down her walls, working both sides equally.

I gaze up at Janice and catch her eyes fluctuating from open to close. She wants to watch my mouth work, but the feelings of pleasure are too much for her.

I treated her pussy like a secret video game code, as I licked Up, Down, Left, Left, Right, Up, Down, Down, Right, Left, Right…

Janice loses control of her body once more. She grabs me by the head and pulls me up so she could sit up for a better view of the exhibition show. Now, with a full audience of one, I slurped at her nectar and used my fingers to tunnel further into her.

My mission was to paint myself all over Janice’s pussy, so that even when she went back to “him,” that it was clear that all of this was mine.

I climbed on the bed knowing my limits and pulled her athletic frame on top of my face and said, “Ride it, boo.”

Without hesitation Janice planted her hands over my head, using the bed as leverage, and perched herself on my face. She grinds slowly at first, but puts a hard twist on it soon enough.

Arching her body up, so that her clit is right above my lips, Janice dropped it. She popped it. She clapped it. She rolled it. She did any and everything to make sure that when she exploded her pleasure would be drenched all over my face.

Janice and I embraced and basked in the afterglow—but not for long. As much as we would have liked to just lie there the realities of our situation would not allow it. Janice got dressed soon after.

As she laced her shoes up, she looked at me the way two mature people who defy circumstances do and said, “You’ll always be my special friend.”

Fin!

Have you ever had a “special” friend? Have you ever been the side person? If so, did you ever feel guilty about it or were you turned on by the non-committal sex? How would you feel if your partner had that one person in their life that no matter whom they’re with could always hit it? Would it make a difference if the physical stuff were strictly oral? Do you consider oral sex cheating? Have you ever engaged in the art of “tossing salad?” If so, how did you get turned on to it? What did you think of the guest blogger’s entry?

Speak your piece…

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87 comments to...
“Have You Ever Had a Perfect Jump-Off? (My Special Friend)”
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Spinster

Hold my mule. My heart is a-flutter, beating really fast. :-|

*FAINTS*


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Ms.De

*Stands up from the pc* “oh my…”
*picks up the phone* “Hello…special friend… you busy?”


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NotLeavingMyName

Hmmm Hmmm Hmmm… I’ve become a frequent reader of this blog. Sometimes I can post under my ‘internet’ name, other times I have to resort to my OTHER internet name of “NOT LEAVING MY NAME” because too many people recogonize my regular ‘internet’ name LOL

ANYWAY- this post this post this post! *WHEW* please excuse me while I fan myself and sip this cold water! Ummm WOW.

WOW because it’s a very stimulating read and WOW because darn it… how did this guy know to write about so much of my life!

My special friend- yes in deed I do have one. And like the couple in the blog. He and I met years ago. When I met him, THE FIRST DAY, I started to refer to him as ‘my boyfriend’ because I didn’t know his name (LOL). We because friends, flirt friends, then more… The times he had a girlfriend, or I had a boyfriend, he and I ‘laid low’ and kept our ‘encounters’ on the safe end. BUT when we were both single… ***fireworks*** yes in deed! It was in the 4th or 5th year of our ‘flirting’ that things got the hottest and the heaviest… Now, in the 6th year, we’re still getting it in when ever possible. Sadly though, I think I’m finally making myself realize that nothing more is going to come of it, BUT- in the mean time…why deny myself?!?! Not so easy now that we’re in different states, but where there’s a will, there’s a way…and seemingly, we tend to always find a way.

I’m going to have to share this blog with my homegirls! LOL again- EXCELLENT EXCELLENT post!


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Ty

Heart pounding and soaking wet. Meet up with “special friend” on deck for tomorrow!

btw “You da best” (Drake voice)


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100K

wow


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Lola

*ohhhhh* Mmmmm….. I need a special friend just like that…

Exceptional job…

Lola


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AnG

Haha, but on the real, I just found this blog a few weeks ago, everytime I come back to it I find something that has so much to do with what I’m going through..

From the death of my brother to getting back with my own “special friend”….

This blog is so damn dope.


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Elle

Have you ever had a “special” friend? Have you ever been the side person?
- Never have, never will in either one direction. Simply not my thing.

How would you feel if your partner had that one person in their life that no matter whom they’re with could always hit it?
- If I knew about it, I’d be out of the door in a heartbeat. Sorry, I do not tolerate that kind of potential drama in my life. I love myself and my sanity way too much to be dealing with this kind of isht.

Would it make a difference if the physical stuff were strictly oral? Do you consider oral sex cheating?
- No difference. Sex is sex. I consider everything cheating that my partner wouldn’t and couldn’t do if I was present because he knows it would hurt me.

Good read!!! Come back for more.


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SoutherlySweet

DAMN!!! DAMN!!! DAMN!!!


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Anike Love

Wow…the imagery is intense, definitely had to take a deep breath on this one! Word-gasm at its finest lol


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capricorn

Its too early for this kind of visual-mental stimulation, and this funny feeling in my pants.

*mad cuz her special friend is 4 hours away*

DAMN you, NWSO!!! Damn you to HECK!!! lol


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scorpio temptress

WHEW * adjusting myself in my chair to stop the pulsating if you know what I mean* I currently just broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years but on good terms any honestly he can still get it and probably will be able to get for the rest of my life…the sex is just that good ! we had this convo and both agreed if we do become involved in relationships with other ppl we would always be each others ” special friend”*wink*


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dave jackson

Thanks for all the positive feedback, I appreciate it.


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MG.

Naked With Socks On…you are the only person that can get me hot and bothered just by “reading” a small part of your excerpts…4 words…Damn your good!!!


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chyna

Just had an encounter with my “special friend” yesterday but uh ruh I think an encore performance is in order for tonight.
*texting him as soon as I hit the add comment button*


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Teezie

I finally decided to comment.

This post bring back memories. Yes I had a special friend. We are just best friends now! But for several years we were “special” friends.” I never felt guilty about any of it. And I do believe that the non committal sex part is the best part. There is no catch to having a great time.

I would not have a problem if my partner had a “special” friend. But I make sure that my partner gets everything he needs so he will not need that person. Whether it is physical or orall it does not matter. Just as long as it is done right. I have nothing to hate on.

Tossing salad is a giving in the art of pleasing someone. I have enjoyed it on both sides. I feel that you have to give your all to get the best pleasure out of sex. Physically and orally.

Thanks for this blog. It made my day. MEMORIES!


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raya

My first time on Wet Wednesday and now I’m sitting at my desk with that ummmmm tingling feeling inbetween my legs….thanks for that one…I think I need to wait til I get home to read on Wednesdays lol


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capricorn

@ raya: OKAAAYYY??!!!???!!!??

grrrrr….


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Tasha

DAMN you did it with this one….. I just started reading this blog and I am never going to stop after this. I need to go home and take a shower!!!!!

I do have a specail friend and we have been in this “relationship” for about three years. At first I did want more from him but soon I realized we are only compatable in the bed. And I am really not mad at that one as far as I am concerned that is all I want from him. But it is going to be hard to leave him if I do get into a relationshi p hopefully they can lay it down like him!!

I will have to talk to him about this “toss salad” sounds good I hope he is down for that one………….

Goin home to take a cold shower:)


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Trecie

I have sat here looking at an empty text box for 5 minutes….wondering what to say, how to start, where to go, who to call….but my mind is blank except for the visual of me being pleased orally by a special friend.

I don’t EVEN have a special friend, but this makes me want to put an ad in the wanted section. lol!

Great job writing this piece…umph x 3…

*turns on Speechless by Beyonce and puts SexTherapy by Robin Thicke in the que*


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raya

Lmao….dnt laff capricorn…I was really messed up a lil bit there…I think I underestimated what a Wet Wednesday blog could b about…I enjoyed it tho


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Anonymous

I think “special” friends are great. when I need to get pleasured, I have a main person to go to. It’s easy and it’s good! if it wasnt good, he wouldnt be my “special” friend. I don’t think one should be in contact with their “special” friend while in a serious relationship but if single, why not? would it still be considered a special friend or a fuck buddy? isnt it the same?
as long as you both understand that it is purely sexual and do not allow emotions to get in the way, it works.

this post made me sweat!!!!!!!!!
and tossing the salad gets two thumbs up!!!!!


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raya

@trecie…u took the words right out of my mouth when u said put an ad in the wanted section lol


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Embracing Me

I read your blog all the time, but haven’t made a comment in a while. This Wet Wednesday was amazing. I just had an encounter with my new special friend yesterday…may need to make another call. I had a special friend before, but when I realized I wanted more and would never get it, I moved on. Being 13hrs away helps. I wouldn’t allow my partner to have a consistent special friend. Im in the swinger lifestyle, but outsiders are on a party basis and there are rules and boundaries about it. I wont allow myself to be a special friend while that person is in a relationship. Anything without my permission is cheating. Salad tossing is amazing. Haven’t done it to some (open to the idea) but I have had it done to me. Guest blogger was great.


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Kool Like Dat

Nice work, Dave. There was a chick I had NSA (no strings attached) sex w/ on and off for a few years. We saw other people but usually it was nothing serious, although there was a period when a dude moved in w/ her and she complained to me that he wasn’t gettin’ the job done. Clearly, she wanted me to give her what she was missing and I was happy to oblige. The sex was amazing. She gave me the best bjs I’ve ever had and during intercourse we almost always came simultaneously. Sometimes I miss her, but I was never in love w/ her and knew it couldn’t be more than physical.

I don’t engage in side action of any kind when I’m in a committed relationship. If you and your partner have an open relationship, then its all good, but if you’ve agreed to be exclusive then you need to honor that or cut your significant other loose b4 you hook up w/ your ’special friend.’


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Caribeza

Damn! Damn! Damn! and what everybody else has said hmmm except for Elle, lol, no offense @ Elle but WW isn’t time for a practical reality check for me.

awesome piece of work Dave,
and NWSO …. that second pic is hawt!!!


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The Duchess

I don’t like my ass licked ot tampered with :neutral:


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OMG!!!!

This post was super intense. Got me “moving” back and forth in my chair just to calm myself down. The memories that this post bring back are wonderful but unwanted. My special friend and I decided it was best that we put an end to our special friendship. Let’s just say I’m thinking about making a call tonight though.

Geez I think this is the BEST guest blogger NWSO has had!

:picks up phone to call special friend:


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menluvmysmile

Sigh I miss my special friend :’( :(


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Anonymous

Well Damn…suddenly I need a sweet beverage and a cold shower.


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da ThRONe

Nope. No jump off ,special friends ,cut buddies, or any other terms.

I do think its despicable to go into a relationship knowing you have that sexually connection to another person.


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Rastaman

Really nice Sir, I am not going to read the whole thing right now because its way too early in the day and its going to be a long day. Got enough distractions with the big booty chick in the office who keeps waltzing by for a casual stroll.

I used to be a special friend, who would provide all that freakiness but unfortunately it has always been difficult for the ladies to maintain that distance.

I am glad to hear the ladies here are making good of their opportunities just remember not to spoil it by catching feelings, desiring to go on dates, frequent phone conversations or sleeping in…no disrespect but there are rules to the game.


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musicman

I need to find a special friend…sheeeeeeeet!


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TaiTai

LAWDHAFMERCY. I was NOT ready…*fanning myself*
I really ought to stop reading this at work…would be #notagoodlook to soak my office chair…

Cosiging with capricorn! Damn you to HECK for this foolishness right now!

Mr. Jackson, fee free to come back anytime!
(Yes Ans, I did just invite him ova to yo house!)


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JamilahP

yuh huhn!! (translation…OW!)
:)


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HotNBotheRed

This is amazingly hot!!! This is exactly how I like my shit. Thank you for wet wednesdays!! =)


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Buttercup Dream

Calling my special friend now… It’s so good between us. We both know that no matter who we are with; we will always have that special connection.


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CB

Have you ever had a “special” friend?
Yes I have… sometimes it’s the best thing if either of you are not emotionally ready for a relationship, but sometimes it can be a bad thing cause someone can catch feelings.

Have you ever been the side person?
Most times the person wasn’t in a committed relationship so wasn’t really the side person, more like “friends with benefits”

How would you feel if your partner had that one person in their life that no matter whom they’re with could always hit it?
I’ll admit I wouldn’t be comfortable with it, so I’d try to address that upfront to see if we’re on the same page.

Would it make a difference if the physical stuff were strictly oral?
Yes it would, and yes oral sex is still cheating…I think any physical intimacy is cheating.

Have you ever engaged in the art of “tossing salad?” If so, how did you get turned on to it?
Yes and yes.

What did you think of the guest blogger’s entry?

Very talented…should write some more.


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Kwana AKA OrangeStar AKA Phoenix7

Hot story tho, love the pic and caption “real men eat ..”but I cannot condone cheating, and/or use of the word “boo” or really endorse casual sex

Da Throne I have to agree, special freind, jump off or whateva …. cheating isn’t cool and causal sex is for fools these days esp in this area DC, you might as well play with a loaded gun……


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~C.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but it says “Courtesy of Dave Jackson” at the top… I’m assuming that Dave Jackson was the writer of this fine piece of WW literature.

Either way…it was juicy! My special friend and I are just friends now…we aren’t the type to mess around when one or the other of us is in a relationship…of course, if that should ever change I can see us hooking up again. He could certainly make me feel some kind of way that no one else could!


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BA

It’s almost twelve o’clock in the afternoon and this post has me sitting up drinking a glass of wine and reminiscing on my encounter yesterday with my special friend. I literally feel like you must have been a fly on the wall to my encounter last night… *fans self* Whew lawd!


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In the Chi

I loved this post. I recently dismissed my “special friend”. But when we were together, it was the best. Everytime we were together it was fireworks! The sexual chemistry was off the charts! It has been 4 mos since we have been together sexually. I miss him everyday. We are still friends but I decided to end it because I could no longer be number two (he has a girlfriend and a new baby). So now I am looking for someone to call my own, who I hope I have the same chemistry with…..


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Spinster

As… NICE… as this entry is, still gotta agree with reality checkers Elle and ThRONe (even though he’s a hot ass mess). Can’t get down with that and if anyone does it to me, out the door they go. :-|


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dave jackson

I would like to remind everyone most of all thRone and Elle this is a story, to be enjoyed objectively. You don’t have to agree with the pretense of how they got to that point, but understand where its coming from, no situation is perfect and love has no manual. Parts of this story are real, part of it is fiction. if it becomes a moral situation then the fact that u indulge in ur lusty selves is negated from jump. It’s called Wet Wednesdays, not Moral Mondays.. Lust was a central point of this story, but the underlining tone was of two people despite “reality” knew and loved each other a great deal. Thanks for all of positive feedback! You guys are awesome


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da ThRONe

@dave jackson

Wasnt trying to poke holes in the story. Honestly I didnt even read the story I dont read Wet Wednesdays anymore. I just respond to the questions on Wednesdays.


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menluvmysmile

@ dave jackson – Moral Monday’s (lol) would really take my love for this blog and turn it sour. Could you imagine!!!!?????!


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Amber

Wow!!! That was an amazing Wet Wednesday post…just wow!


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dave jackson

@menluvmysmile I will not turn anything sour, just wanted to defend my story. Hopefully I can keep a Wednesday wet

@da ThRONe I understand to me the question and the story go hand and hand


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DanielleSpeaks

Wetttt – would be an understatement at this point. Glad I happened to be at home, in my room, near a phone…

@ Mr. Jackson. Loved the visual and the physical (a shower is in order) for that matter, look forward to reading more…


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dave jackson

@ DanielleSpeaks, thanks for taking the time to read it. :-) I appreciate it.


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Falling Fast

WOW!!!!! Is all I can say about this post. I have a special friend. But what happens when you want him to be more????

He isn’t my boyfriend
But I love the way he makes me feel when we are together.
He isn’t my boyfriend
But I think about him so often doing the day
He isn’t my boyfriend
But I am falling in love with him.

What does a girl do when you have everything you every wanted in a man, the love, trust, communcation and the sex is the bomb!!!!

He isn’t my boyfriend
Is it safe to say that I have fallen in love with our friendship???????????


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capricorn

One can have a “special friend” and be safe at the same time. And yes, cheating isnt cool, but let’s keep it real: SOME of us reading have been/will be/are currently cheaters. As long as both or all (swingers are abundant in the DMV) parties are open and honest (and share current test results). .

lol @ Moral Mondays!!!


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dave jackson

@falling fast you got it bad love, I believe that ur lover should be ur friend, falling in love with the perks that it comes with is a dice toss. it’s 50/50 for us all.

@capricorn, thank u for keeping the prespective real.


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Kwana AKA OrangeStar AKA Phoenix7

MY perspective was equally REAL, nothing false about it, just cause other mofos do things , swing, live DL lifestyles, have special friends in abundance in this area or whateva don’t make it right,and there are other consequences, like catching feelings that aren’t recipricated, making babies on loose terms..etc etc etc LOL but hey live ya life..


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Rastaman

So I was instructed by someone to inform all the women with their special friends about the dangers involved, courtesy of Alexis Tyler, YouTube star:

http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1754914


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winter137

Only half way done and am just like DAMN!!!


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Mimi in the OC

I just love the pic that says “Real men eat pussy” so true. I am very tempted to email it to the last guy I was seeing who wouldn’t do it, which led to me not doing oral either, which led to…You guessed it…Nothing lol.


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winter137

I’m done and am sorry that I read this at work ……tried reading some of the comments to calm things down

Didn’t work – OMG Great Job, Dave!!!!!

WW is purely ficticon for me and not morally driven so * respectful eye roll at all the soapbox comments * :)


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b.better

Damn….. that was VERY intense. And I loved it.

I’ve had/been the “special person” on the side for some years now. And in all actuality I LOVED it, it was like my extra scoop of smores ice cream. It was the one naughty thing I’ve done…as for now we’ve stopped simply because I need more. Thankfully he respects that, but knows deep down he could get “it” no matter what *wink* cuz I know he’s going to read this.

My feelings of guilt never really set in because in some crazy twisted way I knew he was mine and I was always his. What we have is weird because we had something before we were ever in seperate relationships…makes sense?
Anyway I couldn’t deal with just an oral relationship, I like dick to much to just completely ignore it for some head. As far as salad tossing this tounge will not be touching anyones ass, but I do like getting it done. LOL


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dave jackson

@ b.better @ winter137 and @ Mimi in the OC, thanks for reading glad u enjoyed it!


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Jay

I was my now husband’s side dish for close to 2 years..He had a girlfriend when we first met who he had a kid with shortly after..We always told each other we loved each other and chilled every day/night..We did all the things couples do..he just went home to his girlfriend (who knew all about me) every night..When he cut things off with the girl we started dating and got married shortly after..Yeah,the dinner roll turned into the main course but even now I have insecurities about our relationship and if he cheats on me like he cheated with me..I think being a side piece or having one is okay if you can really deal with the whole situation..


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older & wiser

@ rastaman, my sentiments exactly regarding the video clip.


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Miss A.

I’ll be honest, I’ve continued seeing someone when they got into a relationship. However, I do not see that person when I’m involved…. and it is the hardest thing to do! But since I don’t believe in cheating, I maintain my distance and minimize contact, although he tells me that I’ll always have the option.


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PrtyBrwn

Ummmmmm… Damn! This brought back some memories. I just started reading this blog a few days ago and dammit, why had I not found it before… Thank you for this site!!!

I always had a “special friend”, until I moved to a new state recently. I was able to reconnect with an old boyfriend who started out as a “special friend” a few months ago, and while he’d like to be “special friends” again, there are still some feelings of love for him and because of that, I can’t wrap my head around him possibly sleeping with other people. Oh, how I miss that man but I just can’t do it!!!

I’ve never been too keen on being the “side piece” though I may have been a few times in my younger days. I don’t share very well, but also, the thought of a man having energy after having sex with me is just beyond my comprehension! LOL

And yes, REAL men eat pussy; Real women suck good dick!


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Nicki

This wet wednesday was really intense. I thought I was the one getting it, lol. Great post!


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canttellitall

I had to post on this one. I wish I could tell the whole story…but will try to get the parameters straight.

I met my “special friend” years ago. We are almost a decade apart in age (I’m older.) We are on our third go-round with spaces in between. He is entangled legally but not physically.

I don’t think we are compatible outside of bed, and in fact, we fight more than I ever had in any more committed relationship. Go figure. But the sex is truly amazing. It’s like everthing that I wish I could see about him he reveals through the sex – his sensitivity, his tenderness and his ability to compromise and please. Yet outside of it, our relationship is challenging.

I don’t think we are meant to be a couple, but I’m at the place in my life where that’s what I want. In fact, I’m PAST that place :-) However, after several years of celibacy did not result in that happening, he became available. I am happy to be back in the saddle so to speak, but have no idea if this will ever change, or if I even want it, too.

I guess you can say this is just complicated but delicious at the same time.

Anything two people do in bed as long as there is mutual consent and nothing is forced or done against principles or true feeling to please the other is just fine by me.

I enjoy this blog. The conversations are interesting and reasoned.


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kaylah

Wow! That was awesome. Lol I myself has had a special friend but was not in a relationship with anyone at the time. Although we were both single, there was an understanding between us that it was only sex. He was the first person that I was with that I can say it was explosive with. From the time he entered the room it was on and popping. Although it was fun, I ended the friendship because I wanted more with someone else.


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Avah Royal

“Since I’m such a good friend, I make sure licking is not all I do…”

My fave part! LOVES it, good work!


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N2Deep

This that SHHHHHHHiT!! I don’t believe in cheating nobody! I say that because I believe in doing things so nobody else has to, ya feeel me.

If everything is right in your relationship but you aint getting sexxxed fully, you need a “Special Friend”. Sometimes getting your fix keeps you happy at home. You got some people that just have limits when it comes to sex but if you are use to more what should you do? Give away a benz because the the tire is flat. No!!

We do it when it comes to other things like girls do girl things with there girl or gay friends, not their manRight? Guys go play ball with the boys or without their girls, Right? So should we cheat ourselves out of a satisfaction that we are use to? I think Not!!

I will say this, you should talk to the one your with to give them a chance but if they do nothing, it’s on you.

I’M A SCORPIO!!! I think in a relationship you should please your partner. Not into sharing because I’ve been with women who couldn’t handle just being a Fuck Buddy so I got one thats been down and doesn’t mind being a FB. The thing I get from her is that head I don’t get enough of at home. She loves to do it and you can tell the difference in loving to and having to.


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mrseastmeetswest

Oh my, I have a special friend….and everything you described, he’s done!!! Gosh, do I love him and I hope we become more then friends.


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Ms.Right

Amazing!! Can he be MY special friend too, shoot.


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JUICY628

FIRST LET ME SAY I TOTALLY FORGOT IT WAS WET WEDNESDAYS…IM STILL AT WORKING BROWSING THRU MY EMAILS AND DECIDED TO READ THIS…OM MY LORD….

TXTING SPECIAL FRIEND AS WE SPEAK..IM JUMPING WEN I GET OFF OF WORK..THE THING ABOUT MY SPECIAL FRIEND IS THAT HE WAS MY FIRST AND WE STAYED GOOD FRIENDS AFTERWARDS..AND IM IN A RELATIONSHIP WERE BOTH OF US ARE COMFORTABLE YET..SPECIAL FRIENDS KNOWS HOW TO LICK, SMACK, GRAB, CARESS EVERY INCH OF MY BODY AND CURRENT BF IS SO 1 POSITION WEN I NEED EVERYTHING…DAMN..FANNING MYSELF AS WE SPEAK..AND WEARING SCRUBS..NEED A BATHROOM BREAK DEFINITY..CONGRATS DAVE..I LIKE HIM..


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sweetsexxybrown

@ Ans: Thanks for allowing Dave to come thru and bless us as a guest blogger.
@Dave Jackson: Hun that was DELICIOUS! I’m so glad I was home when I read this one today…mmmph! This story was an example of my last two partners wrapped in one. One loved for me to ride his face and the other one loved to lick that “other” hole. (***shakin the chill off***)

I have been a side chick, I’ve been and had a special friend and obviously it was for a “special purpose”! Lol! Having grown/matured in that area now, I don’t desire that kind of relationship. But – must say,this blog could’ve gotten me into some serious trouble had yesterday been WW and if I were weaker. My special friend from almost 4 yrs ago was definitely trying to get at my special spot yesterday. And dude was the “best I ever had”. Luckily, my sanity kicked back in or I’d have to be a guest blogger,lmao.

I will admit I have tossed a salad before. It was about 10 yrs ago. (I’m 32) No one introduced me to doing it, I just did it. It was a goo feeling although I wasn’t the receiver. It had dude “bitched up”-just like when the head gets real good to them,lol.


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Intrepid

I’m glad i didn’t read this at work!!! Love the post…

I’ve had my salad tossed, but I think it’s pretty gross and later explained that to my guy. Yes, I’ve had a special friend and at the time it was convenient so it worked. Knowing that was all there was between us was fine by me because that’s all i wanted. I’ve never been the side person. It’s not something I could live with. I wouldn’t deal with my partner being available for someone else sexually, or oral-sexually :~).


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lola289

thank you Mr. Jackson….


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skye

Loved it!!!

I’ve had a special friend, but only when I was single. The sex was great, and I enjoyed it while it lasted. I haven’t had casual sex in a while- purposefully- and I wonder if i can go back there to that ‘no strings attached’ arrangement.*shrugs*

As for tossing salad, hellz to the no!!! I don’t want yr face anywhere near my ass*(pun intended) coz trust my face aint tossing nada.#imjustsayin

As for the moral angle, hey to each his own, as long as u protect yrself.


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TheeGentleman

ive had a special friend. both me and her were in a relationship already that was lacking something in the sexual area. so me and her have clicked and decided to be buddy’s. It all started with her explaining to me that her man isn’t doing the things she likes in bed. He refused to pleasure her orally despite her being always willing to do him. i then explained to her that its 2009! oral sex is like a standard in sex nowadays. she then explain to me how he keeps fumbling the ball in the bed room. i felt bad when she told me about all this, i think that its really unfair. her telling me about her sexual relations sounded like an invitation for me to tell her how i do it, how its supposed to be done. i simply ended with the invitation to show her one day. its been going on for about 3 months now. Its fun and pleasurable, just having a friend to hangout with, talk to, and fuck on an occasional basis feels like the perfect jump off


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older & wiser

In regards to tossing a salad, I can’t get past the purpose of the hole – can you say fecal matter? Not everyone does a good job with cleaning themselves! Yuck! Yuck! Yuck!

I nominate tossing salads as a topic for your new thatsabadlook.com site when you put it up. Yuck! Yuck! Yuck! SMH at the visual…


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Kool Like Dat

I agree w/ N2Deep that you can definitely tell, or more to the point, feel the difference between a woman who loves giving head and one who feels obligated to do so, however, when you commit to one person there are compromises and sacrifices. I realize everyone doesn’t see it that way, but I’m not tryin’ to get caught out there like Tiger Woods over some good ass head. :-)


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Goldie

My “special friend” became my very unspecial “baby Daddy”…and it wasn’t shit “friendly” about the last 4 years. “Head” can’t raise a child, eating pussy doesn’t make you a Man…but once the “special friend” became a Father, I gained a “true, lifelong friend” and He became a GREAT man.


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Question??????????

@ Goldie

Gettin Head and Eating Pussy Don’t make no BABY!!! It’s that other shit. If you wanted to keep that shit special yall would have used “Special Protection”. I’m glad he a good father cause getting pregged probably fucked up some shit. Yall in relationships and now gotta explain the baby!! to your people!!!

But for real “Don’t Ruin The Moment” Plz


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Ms. Sylaneous

Okay, FIRST ummm yes- Good googly moo! Good read! My gosh!.

Now- I’d just want to put my two cents in on the whole ‘cheating thing’.
#1- I don’t condone cheating at all… being the one cheated on before, it’s NEVER good/fun, and would never in life do it to anybody.
#2- when it comes to this post, yes, it sucks that the CHARACTER cheated on her boyfriend, but again people…it’s a CHARACTER. Am I the only person reading this who realizes/feels that it’s okay to ‘escape’ in to a ficticious world of WORDS/reading from time to time? Just because I think it’s a very good, stimulating read doesn’t mean I AGREE with the cheating part does it? I think some of the commenters may have read too deep into it and personalized a piece of ‘entertainment’. (shrugs shoulders- who knows though).
#3- finally, again, maybe I’m alone in this, but does ’special friend’ always mean ’side sex’? Can you not be single with a special friend? I don’t think the words ’special friend’ or ‘boo’ is indicative of the side sex… When I refer to my ’special friend’, he’s a guy that I’m interested in, who’s interested in me, we’re just in different places in the USA, different places in our lives- of which isn’t exactly conducive of ‘relationship’ right now. So he is my ’special friend’, and neither of us is cheating on anybody… When we do vist, the time is special…LOL and we are friends…so there a have it, MY definition of ’special friend’. :-)
#4- to a comment about the casual sex… I have mixed feelings about it. It’s nothing I’d ENCOURAGE anybody to do, but if you make the ADULT DECISION to have sex with a ‘buddy’, then oh well…. I think when you are an ADULT and you make ADULT decisions of any kind, you have to be GROWN enough to deal with what ever happens during the situation and after…So, I respect ADULTS who make their decisions based on what they want to do… and because I respect it, doesn’t mean I always agree with it. I think people sometimes TRY to interchange ‘respect’ and ‘acceptance/agreeing’, and they are not one in the same. We can respect things, but not agree with them/accept them as our truths…

That will be all!
Again… good read….
I look forward to next week’s post!


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shellibabe

damn, damn, damn…. very hot and very good story. Thx. don’t have a special friend but do have a man and we were just having a conversation about the virtures of him exploring my anal regions lol and vice versa. He’s scared but “open” to the thought. I say all this becasue I would never even venture to have such erotic thoughts if he were not “my man”. Just too scared and not interested in “coming behind someone else” cuse the pun. Loved the story tho!


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Brockelle

OH YES! I’ve certainly had a special friend and the “relationship” between us was oh so special. This story was juicy as hell and I recall having passion sex with my jump so kudos to the writer of this blog, ima bout to go call my special friend right now


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NameChanged2ProtecttheSatisfied

1st time here and LOVING it. I will return.


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deb

My first time here. glad i’m at home too, this is hot thanks Dave. Had to call my man to see if he knows about this site. He lives in another state but wl b here superbowl weekend cant wait WOW






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