Comments on: We Have To Break Up on FaceBook Too? (Unfriending Exes)

By: Sugar

Sugar — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 18:07:49 +0000

Not only did I delete my ex as a friend, I blocked him so that he cant see anything that i post. I did keep his cousins as friends though, and it is a little weird.

By: andy@chicks_n_kicks

andy@chicks_n_kicks — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 13:13:21 +0000

I know many of us have had to change their relationship status on facebook and next thing you know you’ve got 10 people asking if ur alright which is kind of cool yet invasive at the same time

By: Lokken

Lokken — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:26:08 +0000

Should you delete a current boyfriend from your friend list? My boyfriend plays Mafia Wars and part of the goal is to get lots of friends – well lots of those 1000 friends or so he now has are half dressed women. I feel it is different from looking at women in a magazine or porn – he won’t ever have contact with those women but with these and other women on Facebook he can now communicate with them. Trust is something you have or don’t. I trust him – but drive myself crazy when things come up in the feed about him commenting on some woman’s profile or picture. A women added so he can have bigger mafia. So I have been debating deleting him from my friend list so I don’t have to see all that.

By: NdotShine

NdotShine — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:45:57 +0000

I remember when Facebook first came with the relationship status. My freshman year of college, your relationship wasnt “official” if it wasn’t on Facebook. HILARIOUS!

Anyhoo…..Facebook is soooo filled with drama its ridiculous when it comes to relationships.

When my ex had me labeled as “in a relationship with” baby mama sending me messages, random chicks that were his friends trying to add me. Is it really that serious? Hellz no.

When we broke up I waited awhile before I deleted him as a friend. I only deleted him because he sent a message to me on there saying ” There must still be something there since I didn’t delete him as my friend” WTH? Newsflash: I do not take the time to delete every person I no longer speak to off my social networking sites. I have a life.

And then came the long “I still care for you” messages and the status messages that were suppose to upset me…that’s when I finally deleted him cause he was on some high school stuff I’m too adult for.

Other than that BS…..FACEBOOK ROCKS!

By: G.G. (Thanks Tron) aka Shay from L.A.

G.G. (Thanks Tron) aka Shay from L.A. — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:01:28 +0000

This is childish.

I had someone delete me because I was no longer friends with her friend. WTF? Aren’t we all grown? Apparently not.

By: PeachesNPudding

PeachesNPudding — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:31:00 +0000

LOL @ Paulette

By: paulette-BAJAN-gal

paulette-BAJAN-gal — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 15:02:52 +0000

I love Facebook…maybe y’all need to get new friends.I have carefully selected the people on my friend’s list and I absolutely enjoy staying connected with them on an easy to use website.Works for me.

You are stressed out from a social networking site??Log out.

By: Jus-Saying

Jus-Saying — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 14:09:37 +0000

i agree with rastaman. and dont get sensitive lol. thing is I actually had to delete my fb account as more and more of my events involved celebrities, models\, athletes.

I instead now just text or email people. As for overseas family and friends SKYPE

so no need to show off that Rihanna or derek jeter will be in VIP with me. Its brashy and even I hate posting it cuz i get “are they REALLY gonna be there” “can I MEET them” or ex’s typing indirect updates like “LOVE HOW PEOPLE GLOAT”

LOL

LIVING FACEBOOK FREE HAS IMPROVED MY LOVE LIFE (NO MORE E-DRAMA,) MY BUSINESS (I ACTUALLY PAY FOR ADS AND NOT SPAM!) AND MY FRIENDSHIPS (BEFORE I LEFT I GOT EVRYBODYS SKYPE, EMAIL AND NUMBER..HOLLER LOL)

PLUS

i guarantee all of you become stressed when logging on. I did. Spend 20 minutes in other peoples realities..pleasant..but still..on their vacations…with their significant others. then u message friends u can easily text

CASE IN POINT. A facebook free life (myspace as well) is great!!! I use myspace actually for my business and just run twitter on a personal level. its A STRESS FREE BUSINESS FREE ZONE..PRIVATE TOO!!!

so take my advice…STRESS KILLS LOL (SO DOES SEEKIGN VALIDATION THROUGH AD PLACEMENT..ERRR..STATS UPDATES I MEAN LOL!!

PEACE MY LOVELY PEOPLE

By: PeachesNPudding

PeachesNPudding — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 03:47:01 +0000

Two things…
One… s/he can remove each other from the “feed”
Two… they can remove each other from their “friendsl list” …. What’s so hard about that? If you aren’t ‘together’ any longer… what difference does it make? My bf and I were separated for MONTHS before I changed my status on social networking (Myspace at the time) …. It was just that I’d forgotten. He didn’t change his until after mine… we’re still cool. So I guess that doesn’t apply… On a more serious note… social sites like myspace, facebook, twitter.. so on and so forth … have become too much of the mainstream in people’s lives, with that I do agree. Sooooo… I’m interested in seeing how the tables will turn in a few years … good luck.

Not to mention I’ve been ________ by a ex-friend on FB … by her, her mother… it’s weird. But what can you do? Deleting her or her mother I think would cause some type of friction on my life… now THAT’S extreme huh?

By: ArtistActivist

ArtistActivist — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:58:28 +0000

I would delete an ex-lover in a couple instances, like if:

1) she is on some stalker ish.
2) I am seriously involved with someone else and me and the ex didn’t truly end as “friends.”
3) there is something happening in my life that I would rather her not know for some reason.

By: Elle

Elle — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:02:13 +0000

@Jay

LoL … whenever you get your butt up and actually use the email addy, I might consider talking to some FB execs to add this alternative in ther relationship status options.

By: YoungJay

YoungJay — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:03:57 +0000

@ Elle

I need you to change ur status on FB to:

”In an Long Distance/Term and Yet to begin relationship with YoungJay”

; )