Comments on: Love Sick (Some Women Are Allergic to Sperm)

By: bogart4017

bogart4017 — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:15:57 +0000

This is not a new phenom. I read about it years ago (sometime in the 80’s).

By: AnonyMiss

AnonyMiss — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 00:40:04 +0000

Wow that sucks. Wonder if she gets an allergic reaction during oral sex too….

By: sweetsexxybrown

sweetsexxybrown — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:51:01 +0000

I’m really surprised at the amount of people who believe you should have unprotected sex before marriage. Using protection should be about protecting yourself from disease and not becoming pregnant before you’re ready. If you choose to have unprotected sex-thats fine-but why is everyone criticizing the couple for using protection prior to marriage? Sooo what. That was their decision as its yours to have it unprotected. Quite honestly, I think its rather nice. I actually am practicing ‘the no raw sex rule’ until marriage. Reason: I want to give my husband something special-and something to look forward to as we enter into this union. Cause I sure as hell can’t give him my virginity,lol.

I don’t think their situation is a big deal. It’s a disappointment I’m sure, but not a big deal if they love each other. Both of their ‘love below’s” still work.Their tools are not inoperable. I understand wanting to have that feeling of one-ness with your partner, but in this situation they are gonna have to work around it. It just sucks when it comes to reproduction unless its surrogacy. Other than that, they can still get it crackin!

But what I am wondering is (this may be a bit technical) I assume she’s allergic to the pre-j but is the allergic reaction larger with a full ejaculation or is it the same? If its not the same, if I were her I would endure the little bit of pain from the pre-j and make him pull out before the full release. (This would be a treat on birthdays and holidays!)

By: Ms Zoi

Ms Zoi — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:26:25 +0000

Wow… welll I know I’m an ASSHOLE for saying this but… I’d be out really fast… well maybe not fast but I wouldn’t stay in the relationship. I waited too damn long to raw dog with my fiance and to have to strap on a condom is like not getting any at all. I may as well get a dildo and a chick and neither one is happening (well except the dildo part, those are cool even with your partner). Eventually everything ends with time and if I’m allergic to your man milk then maybe I shouldn’t be with you! Don’t worry there are plenty of single men searching for a good woman and if you are that you can move on…

By: Ozymandias

Ozymandias — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 17:43:41 +0000

ok ok, since they did have sex before marriage, i’m still quite surprised that even while engaged, not even any raw play? interesting.

By: ttyf

ttyf — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 15:33:21 +0000

Wow! I thought I was alone, everyone thinks I ‘m crazy when I say I’m allergic to my husbands sperm. He thinks I say it so we won’t have sex but he makes me ill. I took him to get checked for diseases but he was clean.I get check every year. Now I know what to tell the doc. Thanks!

By: Elle

Elle — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:25:01 +0000

@CNN

Oh undoubtedly, allergies usually are not mental. I didn’t mean to imply that. I was more so referring to women who are ALWAYS experiencing pain during intercourse.

Shoot, I’m allergic to cats and it definitely is no joke…LoL. If had been a cat owner I would have taken anti-hystaminica (?) instead of giving my cat away or something. So I guess the same applies to the situation at hand. I’m sure there are some pills I could take to prevent an allergic reaction to my husband’s sperm.
I can’t believe I just typed that …. haha.

Anywayssssssss … I’m single, I don’t have these problems .. ha!

By: BMW2K

BMW2K — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:04:47 +0000

WOW! I am really surprised at all the male-centric answers. From my perspective, HE is the one with the issue – not her. HE should be worried. She can find a man who’s sperm does NOT give he the crawlies AND she can have children with them. Granted the testing phase might be tricky, but still. . . If he wants to leave her because HIS soldiers are acidic, then screw him. She deserves better.

I really believe though that they can work this out – and they are. My husband and I started using condoms before we were married, after marriage, and continue to use them today. The only time we did not (purposely) use them was when planning our two sons.

So I don’t think her marriage is doomed? No.

I think it is difficult to say what you would NOT do for the person you love and are committed to when you haven’t even met them yet.

By: YoungJay

YoungJay — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 01:27:44 +0000

Maybe I’m a romantic but let me find the girl of my dreams…wearing a condom and having to adopt ain’t gonna stop me from keeping her and keeping her happy. Growing up in a single parent house kinda makes you appreciate that parenthood isn’t about DNA and that true love (romantic,parental,etc) can overcome anything.

By: Full of Fire

Full of Fire — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:47:23 +0000

Sheesh…

By: mizze

mizze — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:06:37 +0000

@DC Man With A Plan

No its coo boo.. just thank you for asking me to explain instead of just jumping to thinkin what I was talkin bout. Sorry that was not clear though.. oh yeah, I go on and on about things. I just wanted to make sure you actually understood what I was talkin about this time cuz I thought the first comment was clear and obviously it wasnt..

By: Shequita

Shequita — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:44:20 +0000

They had sex before they got married they just always used condoms @ Mamilove and Ozymandius