Comments on: Don’t Trust People in Love (Do Couples Share Everything?)

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 06:31:10 +0000

life sucks

By: yunish

yunish — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 07:45:16 +0000

the people who stay married the longest know how to keep there mouth shut about other folks business, sometimes in telling , someone else s, business to your other half , especially if you are having problems in your relationship or marriage
you can breakup your relationship -because when the relationship is weak , the other half might just go and find out if its true , this is how best friends end up with each others girl or guy, i stayed married for 13 years ,before my ex husband was badly wounded in war,and became disabled to where he lives with his mother, other than that i would of still been married to him for almost 25 years, so the moral of the story is worry about your own relationship and your own dirt , not someone else s, because we all have some dirt we don’t tell, and there is stuff everyone has did in the dark, one thing is for sure no one tells anyone everything , just keep living life and experience is a rude and demanding teacher

you can go to school with someone know them all of your life , and still don’t know everything, about them, then find out 20 years later something that will blow your mind, cause you thought you knew everything about them

By: WaterLove

WaterLove — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 04:48:19 +0000

This is so true! At least for me it is. I am married, and I know I share alot with my husband. So, I expect the same with my close girl friends who are married. I don’t ask them, but I assume they tell their husbands things that I tell them too. It would be hard not to in my opinion.

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By: Righteous Mama

Righteous Mama — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 15:07:59 +0000

LOL @ “Now I gotta sit here with the I ate ass face”

Hilarious.

Ans, you are so right. Don’t do it. I’ve learned too about sharing too much personal info about my friends too. It’s like some men get the “word? Your girlfriend is on it like that face.” I hate when men judge my friends. We aren’t angels. Better keep all that to yourself.

By: Travlayn Moulton

Travlayn Moulton — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 22:01:12 +0000

@ Mizze

Thank you mami…

This is from one of my favorite philosophers Epictetus, Men are not worried by things, but by their ideas about things. When we meet with difficulties, become anxious or troubled, let us not blame others, but rather ourselves, that is, our ideas about things.

P.S. true homies in the wolves den only howls when it is beneficial to the pack…

By: MsNYC

MsNYC — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:01:21 +0000

This is such a good post!!! I hate when I have a girl who tells her man my business! I once had a friend who wanted me to hang w her and her bf, and I told her I couldnt bc I had to do my hair. The next day, she is telling me that he said I can just come over there and do my hair there so we can still hang out. WTF?! I was not only irritated bc 1 did her bf REALLY need to hear about my hair?…but 2 what type of dude is that, that is entertaining her talking about my HAIR and offering up a solution?! It was sooooo odd to me.

By: Gemini

Gemini — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:58:06 +0000

It’s called Pillow Talk! My parents used to say pillow talk between couples married or otherwise is a mother efer in the bedroom! That’s where the jaw gets relaxed and all is out to be known. I remember on several occasions hearing my mother give my father the long what after getting the low down on Bee-Bop, Skip and Bo-Bo’s woman. It went likje this.…. WHAAAAAAAATTT!? Where you here that!? Stop lyin! I guess it’s true if your sister told you cause she nosey as hell. Pillow Talk.

By: Ego

Ego — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 14:51:29 +0000

this is funny… but true!!!

By: BMW2K

BMW2K — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:56:47 +0000

@ Da Throne

I totally agree with you regarding confidant and SO. Unfortunately, too many people jump the gun and start reading too much into the relationship too early. People can start calling someone their SO after just a few months, but it can take much longer before you KNOW someone will not betray a confidence (at least for me). I mean they might keep their mouth shut for six months. Then they run into that friend from college and spill all. True trust takes time to build IMO.

I do think men gossip more though, but maybe that is because I have more male friends (and relatives) than female ones so I am just exposed to their gossip more.

By: dat1honeyb

dat1honeyb — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 04:15:18 +0000

IT IS SAD WHEN WE DO WANT TO CONFIDE IN A FRIEND, BUT WE HAVE TO TAKE IN MIND, IF WE COULD NOT KEEP OUR OWN SECRET, HOW CAN WE EXPECT SOMEONE ELSE TO?

By: Lonias

Lonias — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 03:25:22 +0000

I have been guilty of “sounding off” with my S/O, but he didn’t always know who I was talking about. The only time names were shared was when I was talking about mutual friends and those friends already knew I was sharing. Talking to your boo is a natural release for you, but there has to be balance.