What’s the one item that you own that you absolutely cannot live without?

Yeah, you are right, people are used to being judged etc. by others.
But I think as adults we shouldn’t give a flying phucc (excuse my French) about what others think about us. It’s a matter of strength and integrity IMO.

I do me and what I feel is right 100% of the time despite the outside world thinking I am crazy, stupid, selfish, naive, risk-happy or whatever the case may be. I stand behind everything I do and say. So on that note, I want to be in a relationship with a person who displays the same kind of approach to life. I try to avoid people who fold under (societal) pressure at all cost. But that is just a personal preference.

So while a confession like the one I mentioned definitely falls into the side-eye material category, it made me respect him that much more because he displayed strength (besides honesty) in telling me about his “darkest secret” at the risk of being judged and discarded. He was being true to himself and I love that about any person.

Ok, enough preaching.

As far as people not being up front you shouldnt take it personally. Like I said most people might not be as accepting as you and I are. I for one hate having my intelligence insulted but I can understand how hard it must be to bare your soul to somebody you like and your trying to get to know better.

Yeah like sleep with dudes that think their women! LOL! Ok thats my last one.

Yeah, honesty is key. I am a very understanding and empathic person who can deal with almost everything under the sun as long as I know about. But hiding in hopes of me not finding out feels like an insult to a) my understanding nature and b) my intelligence. And I do not take being “insulted” too well.

noooo, he did not leave me for anyone else.
Self-esteem issues can lead people to do some way out things.

That is wild though. But I will agree I think honesty is huge when you can get it. Too bad most people cant handle it which force most to be fake.

Did he leave you for a Tranny? He should come to N.O. he would have a field day. LOL!

Thank you. Like I said I thought the fact he confided in my with such info spoke volumes about his honesty. And 100% honesty is hard to come by these days when people tend to send their representatives to the first 50 dates.

@ Elle

You are definitely a strong individual to accept that about ur ex cuz that is side-eye material at it’s best