I have to say I completely disagree with the concept that it is disrespectful to make an advance @ a mother-to-be or a women out with her kids. Although I would never push up on a knock up chick(or any chick for that matter) that doesnt make it wrong especially not disrespectful. As long as it done with some class being hit on should never be viewed as a sign of disrespect.

Lets face it most women I know with kids werent together with the dude when the baby was born. So the chances a female is preggo and singo are high! I think any male who is willing to get to know a female with kids(not that were getting a choice now-a-days) or even worse pregnant is a sign of good dude tendencies!(Notice I said get to know and not try to bone) Times are changing and the idea you will end up with somebody(ies) else babymama is the reality that we live in. And if she is a lucky one to be with-child for her soulmate give her a standing O and keep moving.

Yes I’ve been hollered at while pregnant. BIG pregnant, like 8 months. Dude asked me if I had a ‘baby father’.

I’ve also had a guy who saw me with my kids and mentioned that he could afford to take care of them.

I’ve been called fertile by a group of teen boys. That was, uhm, creepy.

Now that my children are older, I move like I mean business outside because they can keep up. I ignore all men who try to speak to me when I have them. I find it disrespectful because what makes them think that I would want them around my children? You are a stranger to ME. Why would I allow you around them? Or forbid it they repeat something to their father, who’s very much involved.

I also find it disrespectful for a man to approach me when he has his own kids and mine are not present. It’s a little bit different when one parent approaches another with children in tow because that takes the focus off of the adults because the kids will entertain eachother. I rarely see single dads though.

@moonstarz

I understand the whole protective thing! But I think people go a lil far with this stay back from my kids thing. I can understand not subjecting your child to being supervised by somebody they dont know ,but to say it wrong to entertain somebody weither you know them or not for a few minutes is insane to me. The world isnt as devilish as we make it to be.

My mom would stop and talk to people I didnt know and I didnt know why. I was a child and I stayed in my place. My mom would have slap the shit out of me if I would have told her how to conduct her business right or wrong.

Once again disrespect is determined how your approached not who you are with. Unless its obvious your with your man.

This is crazy! LOL. I’ve heard from LOTZ of men that pregenat pu$$y is the bomb. I even dated a guy that said he preferred preggers women.

I don’t have any kids so I can comment on the experience of being approached.

I think its pretty tacky as well, although I guess there’s a respectful way to approach anyone right? IDK, but to each their own.

Men will holla at just about anything with a vagina (if they’re heterosexual, for the most part). So that’s not surprising. What makes my skin crawl are those men who try to get with pregnant because they know that she can’t get pregnant at that time, and they believe that they’ll be able to hit it raw.

That shit right there…..

I don’t think there is anything wrong if a man approaches a woman when she’s with her child(ren) As long as they are speaking to you appropriately whats the big deal. We’re not talking about dating with kids. Which is a no no.
I’ve been approached by men while with my child. Its almost as if a women isn’t allowed to get a compliment or shown any type of interest just because she has a child. Attraction is natural and there is nothing wrong with it. I’ve been approached when I was pregnant but I was not interested so I kept on. You sometimes you need to get out of your own way and stop making all these imaginary dumb rules about why you can’t talk to a man or a woman. Unless your trying to spend you who life alone then of course don’t interact with men and you’ll get you wish…to be a bitter, single, spinster complaining about how dare he talk to me with my kid, lol. I actually know two women who met men when they were pregnant and are married to the men now. If they thought like that I’m quite sure they would still be all my themselves still.

I have to ponder this question but I guess I would feel completely disrespected if a guy approached me when I was clearly pregnant by somebody else. It is turn off already when men disregard the fact that you’re taken and come up with some BS line like “I don’t give a fuck about your man. I’m better. He can’t do you like I can.” Excuse me? So being hit on while pregnant … I don’t think Elle would appreciate that. Depending on my hormones it may warrant a serious cuss out galore.

As I have never been pregant, I cannot speak from experience though. It worked for Heidi Klum and Seal though *shrugs*

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Explain this to me though: why do men who are out and about with their kids, pushing a stroller (sometimes even the wife/girlfriend/baby momma is with them too) either break their neck to stare at another woman, wink, signal or flat out hit on her in front of their offspring? Is it just me who finds that disrespectful to their kids/family and inappropriate? Do some women actually find men who are accompanied by children more attractive than if they were by themselves? I mean I can see how a man with a puppy will attract attention from women. But a man with a baby/toddler? To me, that screams DRAMA.

*cueing “Paragraphs of Love” from Ghostdini: Wizard of Poetry in the Emerald City*… the premise of the song is him actually hollering at a “with-child” lady on the block… eh?

Not a fan of that situation, however, if both parties don’t mind… I don’t matter.

I won’t go as far as saying it’s disrespectful, because some women like stuff like that. I’m not really into it. When I was prego with my daughter guys would always try to talk to me, but I would say that I wasn’t interested. SMH, I wouldn’t feel right prego with one dude’s child and kicking it with another dude. I have boundaries… I remember like a week after I had my daughter, I was in BK with my newborn grabbing something to eat, and some guy was trying to talk to me. I was so disgusted, not to mention, he saw my daughter’s father drop us off. It’s a turn off to me. I have no respect for guys that try to approach me when they have their child(ren) with them, or if I have my daughter with me. A compliment is one thing, but trying to hand me their number is a negative.

I am not with my daughter’s father, so I don’t allow any guys around her except her father and family. Children are impressionable, and I don’t want my daughter to grow up thinking that is the thing to do. I would have to be in a serious relationship in order for a guy to meet my daughter, I mean serious like engagement.

On the flipside, I think it is attractive to see a guy out with their child(ren), I admire from the sideline but that’s all.

I see attractive guys all the time, but under no circumstance do I approach guys in that way.

true story, one of my friends got approached while she was 8 mos pregnant. we were all out eating at IHOP late night after a stepshow. Dude knew some of the guys we were with–it was a huge party like 15 of us. That same night I told her she was a true stunner because I had never IN LIFE seen a pregnant woman get hollered at. Still haven’t since.

She was no longer with her son’s father when they started getting to know each other. He ended up being the one that took her to the hospital–they were actually together when her water broke. They continued dating and are now married–with two other children. 3 kids and the eldest has no relationship with his biological father, so in all purposes this guy is the only father he’s ever known. Its an unusual situation sure, but it is true!

If I were a guy I probably wouldnt approach a woman that was with child–either in her company or in the womb, but I agree with what someone said before its how you are approached that makes it disrespectful, not because of your company.

i think its disrespectul..tasteless..tacky and disgusting for a man to holla at a woman while she’s pregnant! But wait ..what about the other way around? Dude im seeing just had a preggo hit on him ..he was shocked and disgusted..she had no shame, after he said no to her advances the bird proceeded to tell him “she would pay, and “its not like im tryn to sleep wit you, that would be nasty”. Oh and she also said her pregnancy was “just a situation”. Mind u chick was like 5mths..smh..wtf she cant wait til she drops her load to go on a date?? OK maybes she lonely u say?..she needs to find a platonic friend that she already knows cuz that shit is trife! I mean she out wit a dude people gonna automatically assume he’s the father..they might even ask him how many mths. she is…when she’s due..etc .Dude: “I dont know…we just met”..smh..lmao

LOL – One of the doctors at the hospital when I DELIVERED my first son tried. And come to think of it, it happened again when I delivered my second son while I was waiting out front for my HUSBAND to bring the car around. And yes, men definitely holla when you are pregnant, or with your kids, or he** even when you are with your husband.

When I was pregnant, truthfully, I considered it complementary. I felt like a cow each time and it was nice to get that from someone other than my husband (because like, he had too say it) and my relatives.

When I am with one or both of my sons, I am not insulted; but, my sons are. As a result, I have found that I purposely dress down if I am with them and not my husband.

If a guy tries that crap when I am with my husband, I am incredibly insulted. This is NOT a compliment. Although it has NEVER happened in front of my husband, I am still insulted for myself and for him.

In the first two cases, I just let the person know that I am spoken for. In the latter, I am a lot more forceful.

Goodmorning! Almost spit my coffee out…..LOL!!

I still stand by my original statement..It is disrespectful and also tacky. I can’t imagine what it is to be a man and approach a woman, but if I was one I’d take precautions and not approach women who are pregnant or out with her lil ones. But to each its own…

I asked this same question once when I would have guys try to hit on me when I had my kids with me. I was told that since I had two kids, they knew that I had put out at least twice. And what’s sad is I think that he was only half joking. Respectful men won’t do this in my opinion. It’s the ones that literally holler at you. I don’t respond to anyone that hollers at me like I’m a dog.

@da ThRONe

I understand what you’re saying but the fact that you recall your mom stopping and talking to someone probably means at the time you were a bit older.

My children are young and at an age where they embrace people because they are still learning and understanding the differences between strangers, people they kind of know and how to behave in their presence.

If they see that I am talking to someone very cordially they automatically feel that person is ok and they want to talk to them. This is why I don’t want them exposed to any dude who feels that he wants to holla. Maybe when they grow up a little and are preoccupied with their own little business they won’t care who tries to stop and speak to mommy but right now they are at a very curious stage.

I dont think its right for men to hit on pregnant women just because of the respect factor. The last thing a pregnant woman wants to worry about is a relationship if she is not with the father. I am currently pregnant now and am still happily with my childs father. I have heard everything from this being the best time to have sex, to guys asking if they can hit it just once. To me its just ignorance and annoying… Especially because a woman’s hormones are going crazy while pregnant and we snap at the slightest things. So if you arent a loved one or anyone of importance, we really dont care what you have to say or what is on your mind.

I think it is all in the way one is approached. I was approached once by a guy while I was pregnant. I was going through a lot with the child’s father and I didnt want any added drama so I declined. I felt weird and I was suspicious about his intentions so I kept it moving. I have been approached with my kids as well. They were respectful each time, I just wasnt interested at the time. Its all about respect.

Well… Im pregnant and i disagree for a couple of reasons..

1) I’m used to getting “hollered” at all the time and I have a man.. the point is its aggravating when guys heads turn now and when they get down to my belly it’s like they can’t even pay the compliment…damn…i dont know about anyone else but it makes me feel like my belly made it not even worth a ‘lookin good!’

2) If something were to happen between me and the guy Im with I would hate to think that because I have my baby in the shopping cart a man that found me attractive wouldn’t approach me… I mean men with kids approach women without a second thought… so why am I off the market because i happen to be pushing a stroller?

I think some men say its unthinkable and disgusting because they are thinking only about the fact that another man was having you probably frequently not that long ago… to those insecure men i say upgrade on the women you deal with because any woman that would seriously take the plunge with another man while still sleeping with her childs father has a plethora of other issues… WOMEN dont normally move on until its really over and honestly that’s all the new guy is worried about…

When a guy approaches you it is not a date… it is a connection or not… how that is disrespectful to the child who is with you, or you for that matter, i just dont see…Exchanging phone numbers and a joke or two is harmless..

Women are some truly unstable creatures! If a guys is attracted to you and acts on that attraction in a respectful way. How is that in any way shape or form disrespectful?

If your not interested or dude is rude thats one thing. But if the guy is respectful in his approach then what is ya’ll problem. Life is to short not to act! And like a few people have pointed out some people have met there future spouses that way.

I think Full of Fire hit the nail on the head, 100% agree.

also @moonstarz i think allowing you’re children to see how you interact with others is a good way to really show them how to interact with others. Children mimic behaviors more often than just following rules. Obviously, it’s extremely important to teach kids not to talk to strangers, but friends are strangers before they become friends, too. I think real life situations like this are the perfect opportunity to teach kids about being cordial and respectful to people, the appropriate manner to respond in social situations, how friendships work, and learning how and why they shouldn’t befriend anyone that Mommy wouldn’t approve of. I’m not saying you gotta go into depth about the birds and the bees or anything, but parents can teach kids about interpersonal relationship by example.

ITA w/Full of Fire “When a guy approaches you it is not a date… it is a connection or not… how that is disrespectful to the child who is with you, or you for that matter, i just dont see…Exchanging phone numbers and a joke or two is harmless.”

It is not like the guys walked up and said something vulgar. They don’t know that you are married (or coupled, dating, whatever) even if you are pregnant. They just see a female that they would like to get to know better. From their perspective, this is their only chance to be noticed by you. They should not be penalized for paying a compliment or saying hello – if done with respect. A respectful guy will either keep walking once you say thank you, or back off once you say no or they notice the rings on your finger (Sorry, I didn’t realize you were married . . .). It happens all the time.

True Story: Just two weeks ago, I was at the supermarket, with my sons. I asked for directions to something and the person I asked responded with “do you need a sexy single guy to help you find that?” My response? “Thank you, but I have two single guys right here who will be happy to guide me (referring to my sons), but if that is still not enough, I will get my husband from the cafe.” then with bright smile “But thank you for the compliment” He shrugged, smiled, and went about his business.

I mean really, was I supposed to curse him out in Wegmans? In front of my sons? LOL

LOL @ BMW2K

Ohhhh I can’t!!

I really can not believe that men push up on pregnant women! Why? Because their kitty kat is great? I can’t imagine why a man would want to have sex with a pregant woman, that is carrying the next dude’s child!! This just leads me to believe that some men do it because it will be quick butt!!

I just think it’s wrong on so many levels!

i actually worked with a girl and while she was prego she was getting hit on by one of our coworkers… she may have even let him hit it… as long as she is comfortable in no way is it disrespectful..
The fact that a women is pregnant doesn’t mean she loses her need for companionship..
And the only possible way there is a level of disrepesct towards a father is when the potential suitor is trying to take the role as daddy when the biological is involved, or if the women is involved.. Its all in the approach… and if his intentions are purely based on sex and your comfortable with that then its all good…
But hey.. i’ve never been pregnant.. who knows how i would react ..

It depends on the situation. I know a girl whose stepfather raised her since she was a baby. He befriended her mom when she was in the womb and it just happened naturally, so it wasn’t a holla holla holla situation.

But that picture at the bottom. I. Can’t. I just can’t. lol

@Ameretta

So if you have a kid you should never date anybody but the father of that child? If you connection with yo babydaddy has ended. What differences does it make when you start another connection with somebody else?

Some people are so childish!

Oh yes I have had plenty of men try to holla when i was 6+ mos pregnant with twins…walkin out Meijer mindin my own and some men lookin bout 40 yrs old start yellin “damn, can u have mine next”…WHAT!? Now i think that’s pretty disrespectful. another time a man was checkin me out and didnt say nething until i left his brother, my friend, calls me up the minute i leave and says his brother wants to holla. I wouldnt say that it is completely disrespectful but as always you have to have a classy approach to a woman period. Although, the father of my kids and I are still together but when ur huge and pregnant it can still feel flattering to know they are still lookin! )

@dathrone

are you ok? YOu seem a bit upset lol.. im actually agreeing with you though but you seem to be coming down a bit harsh on others. Respect is in the eye of the beholder, they are the ones who deem if something is disrespectful or not and if they feel that a man approaching them while they are pregnant of with their kids is disrespectful then they find it disrespectful.. everyone is not going to see things the way you do (and, believe me, that has helped me in my relationship with my fiancee)

But moving on, I do agree with you though. I get talked to while my dude is less than 3 feet away from me so I am USE to getting talked to. I truly dont like it that much because I really dont like attention. But if I am pregnant and a dude STILL wanna try and talk to me- I would feel like the ULTIMATE MILF LOL.. Im sorry, thats just me, not that I would act on it or in any way lead this guy on but I truly feel that its a compliment so I dont see it as disrespectful or what not. Its all about the approach and the level of a respect as a woman and as a mother.

@mizzeboni

I dont remember saying anything about you disagreeing with me!

I had a guy offer to be the father of my next child when I was six months pregnant!!

Yes it happens!

@mizzeboni

I dont think Im being anymore harsh then any female who would talk bad about a dude approaching them when their pregnant or with their kids!

I had a guy ask me out in the presence of my children . I was stunned, he sees me regularly and could have asked me when I was alone. He said nothing disrespectful or objectionable, however, my children are old enough for that to have caused some uncomfortable conversations with them. I would never go out with him because a guy who lacks the sensitivity to NOT.DO.THAT would probably not know how to handle a whole lot of other situations.

@dathrone

O no, you didnt say anything about me disagreeing with you, I just put that out there.. lol..

My whole thing is that people have to know that SHE may find that disrespectful.. you get what I am saying? If she feels that being holla’d at while she is with her kids is disrespectful, then its just that– DISRESPECTFUL.. lol.. Just like some women find her man asking to cum on her face is disrespectful.. I mean I DONT, but if his girl do then she feels it is.. Does that make sense? My whole thing is that I agree more with you than some of these females because I would seriously find it as a compliment to have a dude still think that I am sexy while being pregnant which is one of the top times that a woman feels the least attractive.

At the end of the day its all up to the person, thats all I am trying to say though but I believe that everyone is different and we cant expect them to feel the same way we do about things. That is what makes this world interesting

@Full of fire

1) Congrats on the pregnancy and have a safe delivery.

2) Personally, I wasn’t knocking the sexy pregnant women. For me though, the issue is the fact (or gall) of some dudes to just assume the father isn’t in the picture to even holla. And when I say holla, I generally don’t mean the gentle approach but the aggressive LET ME HOLLA AT YOU GIRL approach. lol

But what does it say about our society that some men are so used to single motherhood that a woman with children or even pregnant is more than likely single? That’s more my issue, but for me, if I see an attractive mother I take note internally but I respect that she probably has a man and/or she’s out with her kids handling business not with her girls and into getting holla’d at the moment. Time and place, like that’s like being in high school and trying to kick it to a girl in front of her parents. You’re game gotta be strong to pull that off. lol

Oh, and it’s not a matter of a woman no longe rbeing attractive because she has a pregnant belly it’s just that oh, she’s taken. lol. Kinda like if she had a ring on her finger, clearly she’s involved with someone or at least recently ended something and probably not in the best place for a relationship

@mizze

I understand you. But I know dudes who will kill because of a person looked at them in a way they deem disrespectful. There needs to be a line between logically thinking people. Just because something makes you uncomfrontable doesnt make it disrespectful.

@NWSO

****disclaimer**** I am the last dude that will approach a chick.

You say there is a time and a place but there is no telling if you will ever see said person again. Why miss out on an opportunity at love because shes pregnant or out with her kids?

@da Throne

Out of curiousity why wouldn’t you approach a female?

@NWSO- I totally agree with you. I think it’s the whole dynamic of ignorance. Why assume that this female isn’t with her soon to be child’s father? Let’s be real some dudes can care less, and they’re thinking “that’s some easy good pu$$y…Bonus if I don’t have to worry about this broads man” SMH.

I’m not really into attention, especially negative attention, so the whole agressive approach towards a prego person isn’t a good look.

I’m sorry, I don’t want to hear “I’ll father your baby” while walking down the street. That makes my stomach curl.

On the flipside there are genuine guys out there who have totally different approaches, and I guess that’s why they end up marrying the prego female.

I would never holler @ a pregnant woman BUT I once had a (very) pregnant woman holler @ me!

At first I was a little creeped out and it felt weird, but shorty was fly as hell so it was hard to resist. And, quite honestly, curiosity got the best of me. I, of course, had heard the rumors about pregnant sex. And if I was going to try it with any woman other than my future mate, she was a great choice.

It was the only time I’ve been with a pregnant woman and, I’ve gotta tell you, that was some of the most memorable sex I’ve ever had. For real.

On one hand it felt really weird to be with a woman with an almost full-grown baby inside her (ESPECIALLY since it was someone else’s). But on the other hand, the sex was OFF DA CHAIN. I still never hollared @ a pregnant woman after that experience but I’d be lying my ass off if I didn’t say the notion of it happening went from “weird” to “Well, if she gives me rhythm…”

You know . . . I have never heard this thing about pregnant sex being the bomb, so I had to check with my husband to see if I was living in a bubble. Well . . . apparently I am in a bubble, and needless to say the conversation was interesting.

It kind of changes my perspective a little. I still say it did not bother me in the past because the approach was always respectful (or maybe I just ignored and blocked out the ones that were not). However, now with this notion in my head, I am not sure how I would respond if it were to happen today.

@LyRiK

Its complicate. I havent had to do it much growing up(Im a looker! ) so I never got really comfrontable with it! I think I judge myself too hard and it effects my nerve. If I hit on girl Im thinking will I make her life better and the answer always comes out no. Although I dont ever remember being turned down the few times I did. Basically Im a big Pussy!LOL

No its not wrong for a blk man to say sexy things to a pregnant woman, we need to here sexy guys wanting us, I luv it and get mad at guys that dont say how sexy I am . Im a woman Im not dead or ugly woman, im only pregnant.

Let me be clear – I’ve never been pregnant, but I’ve never, ever, enjoyed being hollered at. It’s always disrespectful and obnoxious. You want a girl to know you think she’s cute? Try smiling at her.

@Beeee

Its unfortunate that the guys who approached you up until now was incapable of being an adult. But what is smiling suppose to do? Are you suggesting that a guy should wait for the female to make “The first” move?

I think I got more rap when I was pregnant with my daughter. I was sexy as Hell! I have a male friend that loves pregnant women. He would do anything to make them happy If you’re pregnant and get a stupid craving just call him and he will find it. Juniors Cheese Cake (before the mouse pic) cherry ices, mine was crabs. You name it he got it. He got on his wifes nerves because he hung all over her while she was pregnant. We single pregnant women at that time adored him.

@da Throne

Aren’t you the guy that doesn’t approach females? Do you expect females to make the first move? You are confusing me.

This is so off the topic, but now I am intrigued by the type of women that interest you… You are very opinionated, but you usually don’t approach females. Enlighten me.

@ DaThrone

I’m stating that if a woman is currently pregnant and a man decides to holla at her while she is currently with child , in my opinion is wrong! She is pregant. There is no way that my statement was childish.

But if the situation with the mother and father does not work out, then of course it is ok that two adults can date.

I was speaking on if a woman is currently with child Da Throne…….and again my opinion is my opinion……no need for the name slinging!!!

Gee I see you are crossed off of my christmas list, no red thongs for you!!

@Ameretta

No Thong?

My year is wasted now! LOL

@LyRiK

I dont expect anything! If she approach me great if not oh well.

Well Im interested in women with a pulse. LOL If you want a real answer you would have to be more specific.

Lmaooo@ “I’m interested in women with a pulse.”

That’s a classic on so many levels.

@Ameretta

This is a sad stat for me. But half of the females I know wasnt with their babydaddy before the baby was born(for some it may be higher). So if I see a pregnant female in my mind its a 50-50 chance she’s single.

I was in Tacobell a couple weeks ago and saw the most beautiful pregnant chick I ever saw. She was glowing. If I was an aggressive guy I would have inquired. Prengant or not. You dont know til you ask. You dont know until you ask just learn to ask in a way that is respectful!

Just keep it respectful. I got hit on a LOT while I was pregnant. “Yo shorty, wanna make another one?” was the wackest line I heard.

I have to agree with Avah Royal & Spinster. Men will holla at anything with a p***y. And I’ve heard that pregnant p***y is the best. When I was pregnant with my son I had guys holla at me all the time. I was barely showing but nothing stopped them from hollering. I was so worried about my game changing because now I was with child and was on my way to being another statistic but my game was just as tight while I was pregnant. One- Men are trying to f*ck with u because your already knocked up and it’s not there’s. Two- They know u most likely don’t have any diseases so the p***y is definitely clean, & Three- they say pregnant p***y is the warmest/ wettest. So why not? They don’t have to worry about catiching anything, getting the girl pregnant, & the ish is good and hot.Why would any man turn down a offer like that. That’s like winning the lotto to them. I couldn”t believe the attention I was getting as a prego. And just when I though it was over because I was getting to big & I was really showing. They were still all up in my face trying to holler. I did have friends and casually dated while I was pregnant, but felt very uncomfortable being intimate with someone who wasn’t the father of my child so I just used the babydaddy for my needs until the baby was born, but man I do have to admit, that pregnant sex was the BOMB!

@Cali

I agree with 1 and 3 but there is no guarantees that pussy is clean just because its knock up!

da Throne your right I take that back, cause now a days it ain’t no telling. We’ll just say we hope that by her being pregnant, carrying a child, she is not catching anything, especially when STD’s and things can harm or have defects on your child. But ur right it’s 2009 now people get down however. So I take back the p***y being clean, I can only speak for myself. LOL!

Seal met Heidi Klum while she was pregnant with another man’s child. They have a good relationship. It all depends on the manner of approach. As long as its polite and respectful, I say why not….

i think if it’s done respectfully and sweetly, i think that’s fine. although i’ll admit i was surprised to get hit on by a guy walking with his little 3 or 4 year old son! i’m just over 3 months pregnant now, and sometimes it’s nice to get a little confidence boost when you’re feeling like you might not be as hot anymore! i’ve just started to show but my boobs are gigantic now, so maybe that’s part of it! lol if the approach is disrespectful whether or not a girl is pregnant is when i get immediately turned off. i have to walk by a group of guys who hang out near the grocery store and they are always rude. i say “i already have a man, i don’t need another!” and they say “ohhh i’ll do you better, etc.” now that i’m pregnant they say “girl, you can have mine next!” i hate walking by there!

I got preggo by a guy i have known for years. we arent together. i was approached by a guy we grew up with and he knows the situation, so he offered to be my birthing coach, wasnt sure about it at first. but after a few days i decided to call him. we had relations but mind you he wasnt a stranger. even though he is a guy and we have known eachother since kindergarten, i still Supplied the condoms. had it been a stranger, i may not have gone through with it, but since we were friends for over 30 years it was cool with me. my ex still calls me for some. one guy friend who is married with 3 kids keeps wanting me to take pics of my breasts. that there is wrong and i sent him on his way.

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