It means they lack self confidence, and that is the one thing a woman absolutely loves in a man.

The cute almost see through, tank and panty set not giving you clear enough sign…. then thats between you and Jesus darlin.

But I (sadly) know those girls who ride that fence and throw out so many different signals at once, the poor guy just doesn’t know what to do…tired heifers.

For the most part, if a woman gets it in her head that she wants to get it on, and the bed is the choice… theres changing her mind, unless you do something that totally wrecks it.

I disagree with women knowing right away whether or not they’re gonna sleep with a guy.

SO a woman does not think that a date can come from somthing deeper down than what happens on the surface? Really? Like a woman does not deserve something more than just sex? I’m sorry but the last time i checked, a WOMAN is more than an object… women deserve a night out, a good time and great company, that they can trust and actually believe in… Sex only comes into play when that decision is made between two people! I stand behind that reason because there are times when a date does NOT come into play and there is sex! And vise Versa, A guy can then assume and realize that a date is just for fun and the sex does not need to happen. I can find myself in this situation and behappy about it, even often! Sometimes, SEX is not the first or even last thing on the guys mind! That statement is only easily said if the person saying it is 100% positive that all a guy wants is ASS. What about a relationship? What about the pure want for someone to be happy with them? I will never choose to think so, and I will not proclaim that dates are for only one thing! I’ve proven that to many in the past, and i feel that much prouder for it. Unless ofcourse, the woman wants to be used as a tool and an object of desire, to be forgotten about for the rest of her life, so she will put heself into that position and not care if there was a date at all… I (totally) PITTY any (lousy) (jerk) Male that thinks this, and I’ll spit and DANCE on his GRAVE to know such a (jerk) had lived! I also pitty a woman that risks a date that she remotely thinks its going to lead to sex because the GUY is aiming for it. ONLY because, that will be a depressed woman when she gets no piece from the guy. Dates are a nice and calm conduit for leading to the possibility for friendship, a relationship, and maybe sex, not a promise that sex is going to happen. This pins Men as a shollow creature with no heart and no hope for anything, not even a phonecall afterwards.

SECONDLY!!!!!! How can a woman KNOW she is geting lucky if that is not the ONLY thing she is aiming for. If a woman can go into a date, USE the male for a good night out and assume that is what the guy wants then somehting is also wrong there. Sounds like that woman who knows she will get lucky needs a tadd bit of a morals adjustment. How about looking into her own self worth? I mean, if she KNOWS she will get lucky, then she knows the “standard” she’s put herself at. A Target, Something to “aim for”. Sometimes i wish there was a woman that would be greedy and take a guy for ALL he’s got, not just whats in his pants (if its good enough or not). Men have feelings, and wants, needs, and weaknesses too… I can see how it would be easy for a woman to think this, perhaps because men have more of a Carnal urge to procreate… but to assume it, I dont think so. I will continue this debate by saying that I’ve been in a relationship that was phenominal at even the most miniscule “friendship” level. I’ve known the feeling to want to KNOW, and LEARN and REALIZE a woman SO MUCH that the only push for Sex came from HER side of the friendship. Granted, I do my best in the sack to make HER happy…. but, what I wanted the most while I shared myself with her, was for her to be pleased with ALL parts of me… Concern of total satisfaction. See now, how the tables can be turned… I am sure I am not the only one. (and men, don’t get me wrong! the (sex) was out of this world) But I’ve felt physically used before, (liked it) but I’ve been used. Never felt targeted! I wish i could say… “When a Woman goes on a date, she wonders if she is going to get lucky… A Man just knows” But that would not fly very far!

Finally, This is all coming from the points of view of (1) Sex is a gift from wherever, to be enjoyed and to be shared by those whom are endowed and capable to share it with another. (2) Sex shouldn’t be just Sex, its Making Love and Giving all you can to the person you chose to, and to see that they are physically satisfied to a perfection. (3) Sex is only a goal if you have the wish for it at a pure physical level, its like a LOADED GUN, only point it in the direction at what you completely intend to DESTROY. Never come back to the person you (had sex with) for fun, because truthfully…. someone’s gettin hurt (no matter what they say) And finally, I will be polittically correct here; (4) Most people view that Sex should be had between two lovers that have devoted themselves to eachother though marriage. However, that is not my solemn view. As for all the men, I’m sorry for throwing you ALL under the bus! Ladies, Good luck, (we’re all counting on you) if the Title was your point of view.

Wolf, Age 26, Central New Jersey.

I like to sleep naked, so a very clear indication that it is going down is when I get in the bed but ass naked!

As far as knowing if I am going to have sex with a man when I first meet him…ummm, for the most part, yes I know. Just like men say “I’d hit that,” I do the same thing. Only while I am shaking his hand introducing myself, I’m thinking, “I’d tear him down!” Now will we actually end up in the bed?Probablly not, because he will most likely say something stupid and turn me off.