i was going to write a post about this, but i don’t even think i can top this one *applause* well done! my hubby says this from time to time and it’s a definite turn on!

good god DAMN!!!! jesus fuckin’ christ! holy fuck!!! i can’t even think coherently right now…jesus lord..ok, i gotta go…ai got a little sumthin sumthin i need to take care of RIGHT NOW

wow.zers.
there’s a time and a place for it all.
and clearly, you’ve discovered the time and place for that.
perfect way to end my night:) ♥

I’m your bitch! HAHAHA

On my way to get me some NOW! with my 6 inch clear heels and trench coat.

Good Night

It’s a crazy/beautiful thing when you’re caught up in the moment. Talking dirty is the ultimate turn-on when you’re having that perfectly uninhibited sex.

And the Spike Lee joint reference . . . This is why I love your blog

I can’t stand that word, never liked it and never will. All that said, I would be your bitch in a heartbeat. I really need a cold shower right now.

…Im not ashamed to say this although I probably should…I jus creamed a little…lol! NWSO, this looks like the start of a beautiful friendship, maybe more? *wink*smiles*laugh*

Chile, I got so caught up I 4got to answer the question: lady in the streets and freak in the sheets is my moto. Lord 4give me…the flesh is weak…

I will be your bitch woowee I’m blushing at my desk, my co-workers are looking at me like I’m crazy. Man let me cool down…what a way to start a morning!

30 minutes of “clit devouring”? Sounds more painful than anything else.

Ouch.

I’m sorry for not being able to comment on the rest of it but I have to get over that one first.

Ouch.

You can fuck me with your pen and call me your bitch anytime, any day, anywhere… But please, no hair pulling. Postcoital migraines are an absolute turn-off.

Why, YES you can call me bitch, especially since feminism’s still alive… and I must disagree with Elle, he’s not doing it right if you feel that way, TRUST me! Great way to start the day!

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I feel you Ms. Laik…I hate that word too but….
I would be your bitch too NWSO! This was amazing!

Yes, indeed! If only for one night…when will we get to see your face to put with all of this great erotica?

Damn, dogg….All I’m saying is I’m glad I don’t have a woman reading your blog….lol….But it’s kinda funny how accommodating women can be–when they’re anonymously on-line. No doubt YOU could get some play with your words of wisdom, wise commentary and sexual innuendo, but the average man–we’re just tryin to make it happen, tongue tied and limited words of expressions. I wonder how these women who are all hot and ready–just reading your words, behave when a fella tries to holla at them at the bank or at the car wash, In person. Still, I have had a few women who were down for being called B*tch or whatever when I was putting it down, but they ALWAYS made it clear, once we get dressed….that shyt is OVA! I can work with that cuz in the heat of passion, lust or just a hard f*ck, sometimes its good to just let what happens happen. Smackn a lil azz, pulling a little hair, being IN the zone where you’re ALL-IN, sometimes shyt slips out…but if you’re working it, ain’t no stoppin for language corrections…..let it flow baby, let it flow!

wow….i sure could think of somewhere i’d rather be right now than sitting here at my desk after reading that….i hate that word too, but man oh man….i will be your bitch if you’re gonna bring it like that! wow….

And, yeah, I’ll be your bitch . . . I just had to read it again, lol

Ok a sistah at work….and I swear I’m about to call my dude for a nooner. Meet me there or beat me there!!! NICE NWSO!!!

One.Word.
DAMN!

Wow….I don’t even know what to say but YES SIR!!! That is amazing…wow…I’m really speechless. I love your blog!! Lol

I dont even know where to start. I guess for starter’s I will say I WILL BE YOUR BITCH anytime, shit 24 hours around the muthaf*ckin clock if you can make it do what it do like that. I love that type of shit. It turns me on when a man can talk the talk and walk the walk with alllllllllllllllllllll that freaky shit! Count me in cause I’m definitely down for that. I don’t give a damn if I am at work, let my lil tender call me anytime from now to 4:15pm….Shit everyone’s entitled to a 15 minute break aren’t they? (lol)

damn!!! is there anything else to say?

Gotta agree with the rest of the ladies…H*LL YES lol. You had me at pulling my hair, I love that stuff. Only if u say it mid thrust so I can feel your passion when you say it…OMG! And yes, trust when its over you better not ever call me a B*tch again lol.

So much for getting any work done today. Shit.

And ummm, YES!

WOW!!!! First the pen-ial penetration, now asking me to be your bitch for one night! These type of stories are so much more than pleasurable erotic fanatasies…..your way with words would make any female offer herself as a sacrifice to be your bitch….that bitch….if only for one night!

In the midst of having sex, it is sometimes a turn on to hear a man call you a bitch. Like you said in a previous post, are we supposed to hold things said while having sex against someone? I think not. So call me a bitch because chances are I am calling you some names too…..

Can’t wait for tomorrow’s post…..

‘Til Then,
Ms.Trecie

I’m at a loss, which speaks volumes!!! I can’t read your blog in the morning @ work anymore. Good Lord.

“You wouldn’t wanna be my bitch? Really? Not even if it was just some good ass, 90-degree mid-summer sex in a second story Brooklyn apartment with a broken AC?”
NWSO, this is sooo true. LOL You have me fiending for summer time now.

By the way, if it is as amazing as you make it seem, you can call me Bitch in every language you know.

oh lawd…y’all are so freaking nasty.lmao

I’m not touching this one with a 9 inch…uhm…pole.

Yes! Only if you could be mine.

yum…i can be all you want me to be just as you lay on me nice and hard..mmmm

Dayum! I am at work! You are phenomenal with your pen. Truly! WOW!!!

LOL the comments from the ladies! this might be one of those mass forwarded emails that would help out a lot of dudes! LOL

I don’t know you… and I don’t need to. All I need to know is that these words match the actions and if so… then YES! lol.

Funny enough though, I have no issue with the word BITCH. That word has even less effect on me than ANY derogatory word does on a white person (sorry..it’s true. They don’t have a “taboo” word that really insults all of them. lol)

So… we were good from the beginning.
But, since your doing ALL OF THAT (hehe), I’ll play like the word bothers me… and let it go for all you offered.

I’m not usually the blushing type but this one has my cheeks cherry red

Read it again…and I still would be your B*tch!! Lol, matter of fact if we were just out somewhere and you whispered B*tch in my ear, I would have to take you in a closet or something to get the business right there! Lol, sorry its been a few months.

DAMN!!!!DAMN!!!DAMN!!! I think i need to go home and shower!!! Twice!!!LOL!

NWSO…that ish was great!!! Got a ciggarette!!!

You need to stop with all this teasing Ans!

Lawdhafmercy…
If only…
Boy, would I…
I can’t even finish a thought (or a sentence!!).
So glad I didn’t read this when I saw it on Twitter this morning, or I’dda been callin in and missing work TODAY! That was hot…
Yessir, I’mma be ya bitch, whilst you devour, pull the locs, smack my ass and nibbled on my earlobe!
And its ON LIKE DONKEY KONG if you love me!!

Oh I got your Bitch………AND IT’S ME-LOL
I love it!!!!!
Job well done……

My Dude ….You are a G!!!

Good luck to your wife bruh, she gonna have troube holding down a job lol

Only if you promise to call me a dirty bitch. DAMN! Only one man on the planet has ever gotten that from me.

I’m with sis at the top. I most def just creamed a little. LOL!
So glad I’m working from home today…excuse me for a moment while I handle this.

NICE!

nice one NWSO…almost made me cum in my seat…guess you like to give it to your ladies nice and rough…many love it when you make ‘em feel like a total slut…so give it to ‘em…REAL HARD

Dayum!!

I forgot I was at work……..

I had to leave my student by the door before I can open it and allow them in the class!!! I needed a couple of minutes for myself…

**Clapping**

Job Well Done!!!!

Now I must go to the bathroom and clean myself…..

Yessss baby! I’d be your bitch! REALLY! I love the dirty talk. Pre-sex, during sex, post sex. On the phone at work–it don’t matter. But I also love it when my man whispers that dirty sh** in my ear. Like…”Keep acting up, when we get home I’mma f**k da’ sh** outta u”! Don’t get it twisted…some women want to be treated like dirty little sluts.

Yes. I will be your bitch!!

One time I told a dude to smack my ass and he ‘tapped’ it…lmao.I am so in control in the real world that I NEED to be dominated in the bedroom.Like…get your man on and DEMAND baby. I don’t like wimps in the bedroom.

You have to push me against a wall and take that shit.Use the nastiest words you’ve read in magazines…seen in porn videos…tie me up and spank me til I’m begging.

Wow…did I say all that out loud?…DAMN…it’s getting hot in here.lmao

NWSO..damn good one! I’m in a budget mtg and had to read today’s post…now I’m trying to get this big smile off my face & lustful thoughts out of my head!

The word “bitch”…it’s all in how you use it (also who). I mean, you know when it’s said in THAT tone and it becomes a fighting word, when it’s a term of endearment amongst friends, and when used while “just clownin” …as with most things, it depends on the person. I don’t have a problem with it, but one of my close friends will lose her mind about it…so we treat each other accordingly.

As for how (and when) it’s used in this case..I’m all for it! LOL

@ DC Man … if that regular dude on the street is confident in himself & his manhood…and there is no hesitation in his spit…he knows what he wants & can speak on it..he could get it from most women in a minute! (Though problems set in when we find out he’s acting, but that’s another topic.)

Dang..gotta stop..I have to participate in the discussion! lol

“You wouldn’t wanna be my bitch? Really? Not even if I told you that feminism was alive and well but right now, at this very moment, all I need is a dirty little bitch to fuck the shit out of me?”

Are you serious right now?! How the hell am I supposed to go to a meeting now? How can I give a presentation with wet panties?

Um..do you ever come to Philly? LOL.

@ Paulettebajangal

You are my Shero!!!!

Ok.

OMG… yes id be your bitch… when you put it like that how am i supposed to say no… lol
that is so sexy i love it when i be out wit my dude and it start gettin late and he tell me ima take you home and fuck the shit out of you….. yes…. i will i will start takin it off in the car…. we can park in the gragae…. and may our way to the bedroom…

let me stop… but hhhmmm… nice post

Now that was some pleasure filled reading. Damn did I enjoy that! I have been sharing your post with my fiancee since I started partaking in your blog but I know this one is gonna get a sister some reward,,,lol. Thank you in advance cause I am positive I will be his B**** tonight!

NWSO…Now that’s what I’m talking about!!! I will be your bitch all day long if you can f^&k the way you write… How do you want it,Big Daddy?

No thanks. All that stuff is GREAT, but calling me a bitch is like hitting the “off”switch. How does “bitch” even come out of your mouth unless that’s how you feel about me (and possibly all women) in general?

Let’s turn it around: Would you mind if I called you MY bitch?

@ Heavnsgirl…uhm…I’m a grown ass woman.Have you heard any woman on here say he’s calling us a bitch outside of the bedroom? Sounds like you need to take off the nun outfit and let loose a little.

And if your name implies you are a church going girl…uhm….you clearly know what these blogs are about already.Don’t think your comment is gonna change anybody’s sexual preferences.

A brother can change roles and be my Bitch…I don’t mind whupping a man’s ass…at all.

@paulette–

I’m a grown-assed woman as well, and as such I am entitled to my opinion. I know my way around a man and a bedroom, but I don’t like being called a “bitch”. If that’s cool in your bedroom, keep it cool in your bedroom, but that’s not how I roll.

I don’t aim to change anyone’s sexual preferences. Don’t you purport to know me because you don’t, and you are wrong in the assumptions you made. The very last line in the blog post is “Speak your piece… please.” I obliged. How is that a problem for you?

@ Heavnsgirl

Obviously a lot of us like to be called a bitch in the bedroom.Your statement about a man feeling that way about all women in general is very naive.

Its a term used in the context of 2 people fucking each other and saying and doing things not done or said in public.

Consenting adults…do things that just might not make sense to some people.It happens.

@paulette

I don’t know why you feel it your duty to “school” me, but let me assure you that it isn’t necessary: I do read for comprehension. I understand the context of the post, and I am not naive about what goes on in the bedroom. Thank you though.

Let me spell it out: I really don’t care what you or other women like in the bedroom. Live and let live. I was voicing my opinion on the post. I am a consenting adult and I don’t have to consent to being called a “bitch”. I don’t like it. Nor does being called a “slut” or a “whore” turn me on. You and your man can call each other bitches all day long if you want.

Love, I will be your BITCH in the morning, your BITCH in the afternoon and your BITCH in the evening. I will be your BITCH in the bedroom. Your BITCH in the kitchen. I will be your BITCH when and where ever you want me to be. Just as long as you putting down like you stated above. DAMN Love you fierce as hell!!!!

I am another woman who doesn’t like being called a bitch either. I don’t care how nasty or freaky you are getting in the bedroom. The post was cool but some alot of you making it seem he is tne next Zane (no offense NWSO). If you think this is great then it shows you don’t read alot of erotica.

@ paulette – I don’t understand why you are getting all upset because someone doesn’t like the word bitch. She is entitled to her opinion. Why are you forcing your opinion on her?

Who is getting upset?…I like being called a bitch in the bedroom.Did I not make that clear enough.

I LOVE BEING CALLED A BITCH while my hair is being pulled and my man is fucking me doggystyle.

He asked for an opinion and 98% of the women agreed.Enuff said.

Beautifully put NWSO. The build-up of tension into an animalistic desire to dominate your lady makes this a nice piece of prose. That being said, yes indeed, while we are in between our four walls, my man can call me whatever he likes in the heat of passion. Granted, not every encounter turns into a bitch-shouting fest, but in these stressful times, releasing a little aggression through uninhibited sex (between consenting adults) is good stuff in my book!

Zane is not a great erotic writer.Anyone that thinks so is probably spending way more time reading than experimenting in the bedroom.

It’s like black Playboy without the pics.If a word can offend so much…God forbid we talk about the other shit we really do.lmao

ooph, ooph u done made my girl jump tree times! (hope u catch me drift) omg, im definitely savin this one to look back on, thanks

I don’t wanna say it out loud …(but yes you can lol)

@ Paulette – I am glad I am not the only one that doesn’t like Zane. I tried to read her book of short stories but ended up giving it to someone else.

I just have to say that I am pretty freaky in the bedroom I just don’t like being called a bitch.

1 more thing… for the ppl who mind bein called a bitch in a sexual no holds bar session… you must not have had it done right… cuz the right guy hittin it from the front back side or whatever… u will let him call you every bitch slut in the book… its just stress relief and desire… dont mean thats how he feel outside the bedroom but… hhmmm i can honestly say ive been a bitch a few times in the bedroom… and loved it… haha

Why haven’t more men commented on this one today? Where is Da ThRONe?

@ Cosmic – I agree with you on all accounts.

@ Cali Sunshine – I do it right, and get it done right on the regular. Being called a bitch will shut down all operations immediately. Not only is it not a turn-on, it is a turn-OFF.

Everything ain’t for everybody.

I am with HeavensGirl. Sawry, “bitch” doesn’t fly.

Pull my hair, smack my ass and talk dirty all you want. Heck, I talk dirty too. That’s part of the game if you will. But I will not be called disrespectful names in any kind of scenario. Period.

Once you cross the line to fix your lips and call me “bitch”, “slut”, “whore” and the like in the heat of a good moment it won’t take much for you to use these same words in a derogatory way when we’re fighting. And that is the point in time you have lost respect for me alltogether – which seals the deal and I’m gone.

That’s the logic I live by.

And if 98% of the women who responded positively on here jump off a bridge, I still won’t jump with them simply because it is deemed the hip thing to do. I don’t care what everybody else does. Opinions is what Ans asked for and opinions is what he shall get. The whole spectrum of opinions.

Live and let live … why don’t we.

if i had to be,it would only be because of the second to last question posed.but whatever i was to the one that was in love with me,what he would do to me,and what i would want and told him to do to me,would be sacred between us to only.people not knowing how I was but my man.but only if it was sacred.he could get whatever he wanted.otherwise,it wouldnt be special.interesting article.

Lookitchu, tryna get buns via blog.

*grins*

good job, mayne.

If this is any indication that women are in touch with their sexual wants and needs…and are demanding it…and getting it.KUDOS.

Here I was thinking I was a freak.When in fact most women seem as open as i am.Most men aren’t responding cause they love that ish.And if he doesn’t its because a sista gave off vibe that forced him to “shut it down”.

Im late but clearly needed !

Who care about the words its the reason. Relax people its just a word. Grow up! If you let a word kill the passion you need to do some soul searching or therapy. If it turns your lover on if your his lil dirty bitch then let him have his fun. Its not verbal abuse and its not the same as him asking for a threesome. And Im sure you will have your thing that will be a little odd to him but if hes the right one when you call him your “lil pussy ass boy” or whatever does it for you he agree and keep it moving.

What’s wrong with 3somes??…lmao…that’s a whole nother blog that will get dissected and pummeled by the unadventurous ladies.

@paulettebajangal

Its on baby me you and Kee Kee! LOL Ofcourse One of us gotta marry her first. I most warn you imma freak .

@ Da Throne…rotflmbao

Kee Kee the virgin?????????…you are a trip.YOU would have to marry her first.lmao

Isn’t part of owning one’s sexuality and feeling free in (and out of) a relationship the ability to express likes and dislikes?
@Paulette – For someone who goes out of her way to make sure everyone knows how open & “freaky” you are, you sure are judgemental about what others are doing sexually.

@Throne-What works for both parties is all good, and it’s working like a mutha in my camp. No “bitches”, “sluts”, or therapy necessary. Plus that “it’s just a word” BS doesn’t fly. All words have meaning.

@HeavnsGirl

Of course all words have meaning. Duh! But that meaning is based on how Im mean it not just the word. I call my bestfriend in the world “A punk ass bitch” everyday and that nigga would die for me like I would for him. Life is what you make it. If you walk around with your granny panties in a bunch all day long then ofcourse being called a bitch will upset you. But if your a person who enjoys life you would worry less about terminology and more about meaning. At some point any word can be a term of endearment or an insult. If a white men called a black men a “boy” that was an insult. Now we call each other “boys” all the time. Stop being anal and start taking it anal? LOL

@ heavnsgirl…I don’t go out of my way to do nothing. I am very open and honest about my sexuality.No shame here.Are you clocking my comments? Might wanna spend your time on more constructive things…i don’t even remember none of yours but for this one here.

Am I the only one that likes being called bitch up in this blog??Why don’t you finger point at the other chicks that like it too??

We give words power …”bitch” ain’t a word that offends me.cause the many brothers that called me it in the street didn’t know me well enough for it to even matter.They were just mad I wouldn’t holla back at them and they thought the word would actually hurt my feelings.It didn’t.

@da ThRONe

Let’s keep it clean, man. Think the “take it anal” was a bit of a low blow. I’m all for the comments and discussion, but I dunno, that one rubbed me the wrong way.

@HeavnsGirl and the rest that took offense

For the record, I don’t use the word “bitch” in my every day speak, just like I don’t use the n-word. Yeah, on occasion, both slip out but usually for someone that is really acting like a b-i-t-c-h or “bitchy”. But again, it’s rare cases.

In terms of the use of the word in this piece, it was key to the moment and intensity of the mood. I knew some may take it the wrong way and thought of a disclaimer, but I figured why taint the emotion and most would get it. I think that was the case as surprisingly a lot of sisters who commented didn’t seem to mind because they saw it sexy in this context only. But of course there are those that don’t find it sexy at all and I respect that wholeheartedly.

@NWSO

I wasnt advising her to do anything. Its was just a play on words which was trying to say loosen up. I wasnt trying to offend her at all thats not my stlye.

@HeavnsGirl

If I offended you I apologize ,but I would hope you are mature enough to know that it was a joke and not meant to hurt you.

@NWSO –

I visit your site and find your posts insightful and though-provoking. I usually don’t comment. This time I did, and because my opinion differs from most of the people who have voiced theirs here, I guess I’m a target. No worries though- as an artist myself, I am no stranger to controversy. My philosophy is truly “Live and let live.” Do what you want, as long as you don’t hurt anyone who doesn’t like to be hurt.

That said, you and your writings don’t offend me in the least. Even if you did use “bitch” and the n-word all day long everyday (I understand that you don’t), that’s your prerogative. If you are saying something that I find to be of value, I will listen. If not, I won’t. I especially liked “I Fu*ked Her With My Pen”.

I do know a lot of women who like to be called names during sex. I just said that I am not one of them. Why that has become an issue for some individuals here, I don’t know. Seems the opposite of “open-minded” to me.

Great site. Keep doing you.

Today is my first visit to this site, and this is the first blog I’m reading. I must say…wow. You still couldn’t call me your bitch, but you definitely present a compelling, lubricating argument.

Today is my first visit to this site, and this is the first blog I’m reading. I must say…wow. You still couldn’t call me your bitch, but you definitely present a compelling, lubricating argument.

NWSO… Its obvious you haven’t been with a dominican.. Cuz if you did..
I would be Calling You Bitch while you said “ay si mami ay Dios”

LMAO!!
But that’s some hot,freak nasty ultra sexxy shit!

i kneel at your feet, your holy sexiness. fuccin’ amazing.

@ Jenn Perez

Nah, honestly never partook in any Spanish fruit but one time. not by choice or anything, just never happened…

Man this go hard in the paint. i would be some one’s bitch but only at that time after we are done so is the word.

Nuff said

I HATE that word and it’s rare for me to use it. But besides the “You wouldn’t wanna be my b—-?” question, the poem sounds pretty hot. Might send it to some of my friends, I’m SURE they’d love to be your b—- after they read this…..

first off, gotta say love your blogs. secondly, wow!
third, being a bitch in the bedroom is a beautiful thing especially if you are giving it to me like that!

Ans,

I have been reading your blogs off and on for quite some time and never commented. However, I am compelled to comment here and say that you definitely wrote an enticing, seductive blog that got me saying, ‘I will be your bitch any time any day’….

Can’t lie, being his ‘bitch’ in the bedroom is an illicit pleasure

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