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By: Just ME HC

Just ME HC — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 16:16:22 +0000

My outlook on it all is i dont have the time nor the energy to go through your stuff HOPING to find something. B/c in all reality if a woman is looking through your stuff she’s LOOKING for something. WHY? Whats the point. If you think your man is cheating, confront him like a real woman. Dirty that happens in the dark always comes to light. So why drive yourself crazy. If your unhappy and going nuts because you think he’s cheating, cut him lose. No many is worth all that effort. Let things go, and let them take their course. I dont look through my mans stuff ONE because its WRONG and two because i dont wanna know. Really whatever he does behind closed doors will come out. I’m not about to make myself UNHAPPY because i QUESTION the man i’m with. If thats the case i’m no longer with him.

By: His Wife

His Wife — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 07:47:12 +0000

1ST: YOU SHOULD NEVER SNOOP.
2ND: I am guilty of snooping. I did not wake up in the morning and say “I think I will check his phone, etc.” I just get a feeling that somethiing is not right between us and lo and behold I find out he has a “new female friend”. I am not proud of snooping and I feel it shows the insecurities I try so hard to hide. What I want to know is why does anyone have to CHEAT.

We pride ourselves in saying I am GROWN, I can do whatever we want to SO IF YOU AIN’T HAPPY AT HOME PLEASE LEAVE.

DON’T CHEAT (PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY).

YOU ARE HURTING THE PERSON YOU WILL USUALLY CLAIM TO LOVE IN WAYS YOU CAN’T EVEN IMAGINE.

If you have an “innocent” friend/text/e-mail you should be able to explain it. Not answering the darn question just makes it worse. Isn’t the person you say you love worth a simple explanation versus leaving a relationship YOU WORKED HARD TO BUILD.

JUST ASKING!

By: Smooth Operater

Smooth Operater — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 03:06:47 +0000

I’m a very handsome dude and always get looks from women. I have come to the conclusion that no matter who I am with she is going to snoop. I always explain that it she is caught it will have to leave her because that means there isn’t any trust. A relationship without trust is one without me. As far as insecurities go, I would first try to show my boo that she is tripping. If she doesn’t get it then hell yeah I’m going to go get me some if labeled. I’m going to get her friend (the one that keeps trying on the low, lol) just kidding. Seriously, if she doesn’t trust me then Imma do me because ssh*t ain’t going to change. And she might be doing her and the guilt is getting at her.
I don’t snoop, that’s for losers. If I lose trust, its OVER!

By: Foxy

Foxy — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 16:44:00 +0000

I’m wit the majority. If you have to go there, it ain’t worth it. Also, if you go there, make sure you’re ready for the results.

I suspected, snooped and got my feelings ALL busted up. I mean I found some really twisted sh*t. Was it worth it? Yeah considering the high risk stuff that was happening.

Would I do it again? No.

If I suspect, I’ll trust my initution and bounce.

By: KLS

KLS — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 15:22:41 +0000

I admit to being a snooper in the past. I had to realize that no relationship that called for that was worth being in. I realized that it was also due to my own insecurities. I’m still in that relationship, and now the tables are turned. He’s now doing it to me….well, I’m not sure about the snooping, but the constant check ups while I’m out, etc. are really annoying, especially when you’re not doing anything wrong.

I can definitely see how it can push a man to cheat. It’s like he puts the thought in my head, when it’s not even there to begin with. I admit, I’m a seriously considering it. It may also have something to do with the fact that when I was snooping back then, I did find out that he was cheating. We worked it out, but he’s always had the suspicion that I want to “get back at him”. Although I’ve thought about it, I never had the intentions to do so. I only gave him a second chance, because he’s the only man I want.

I love him, but I’m really starting to see how you can love someone and still cheat. It’s something I’ve never understood until now.

By: Pam

Pam — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:01:12 +0000

It’s not “bed” but “be”

By: Pam

Pam — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 11:59:33 +0000

How do you mean a man shouldn’t hit a woman back “if she hits him” no matter what?

Wow! I’m a female, if I’m going to bed woman enough to slap, punch, kick, my man I should be woman enough to get the same from him. How is this possible for woman to agree to them slapping up their man, and “oh, because I’m a woman” I shouldn’t get slap back.

How about you also being an adult and not putting your hands on your man in the first place. I see, why some brothers leave a woman, to much double talk. That statement alone, would make me cheat on a woman who believes that.

Equal rights but not equal treatment.

Ladies who agree that they can hit a man, but him not hitting her back, simply because she is female, are plain stupid. Sorry!

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By: Bratt

Bratt — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 04:41:03 +0000

If you gotta spy, you don’t trust… if you don’t trust you shouldn’t be in the realationship in the first place. That all there is to it.

By: da ThRONe

da ThRONe — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 15:08:28 +0000

@sb

I think were defintely in the same ballpark! lol

But once your “s/o” loses the benefit of doubt with you that relationship is compromised. Every relationship have there issue ,but there are a few basic elements in a relationship(trust being one of them) if they are broken then that relationship is a failure.

By: LL

LL — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 12:16:04 +0000

While we all would want to confirm whether or not our mates are actually cheating, sometimes things can go to far.

Bottom line, don’t be with anyone you cannot trust, and who can you really trust these days?