It was a nice show. That one dude sounded like Reggie Miller though.LOL

That topic hit home with me being as I am a person who hasnt had a real romantic connection with a female since my 1st and only love almost 10 years ago. Its not because im stick on her ,but like you said she set the bar so high that she couldnt live up to the lies that she told. But even with the dishonesty she still was a great fit for me. I have met other girls that rivaled our bonded but they only saw me as a friend. I have had some intemate relationship with some stunning ladies but never captured the same level of understanding. I havent recaptured that combonation of mental and sexually connection we shared and im starting to fear I may never have it again!

Second!!!

Yeh, I was on their show the week before and I am FROM The Bronx and got lost!!!!

So glad you posted this. I was in a meeting on Tuesday like, “Damn! I’m missing NWSO on blogtalk.” Can’t wait to hear it. It’s um…buffering right about now.

Dueces.

Umm…Wednesday. My bad. Can’t even keep track of the days anymore.

NWSO – It was nice placing your voice with your writing with your face.

I think Chia said it best when she mentioned that short-term rebounding is probably cool – as long as both parties know the recent history; but long-term relationships that come from an immediate rebound (from one long-term relationship to another without any breathing space in between) may be based on unhealthy circumstances (i.e. they might come about as a desperate measure, or an attempt to make the “ex” jealous, or simply to get bills paid or have a place to sleep at night).

I am trying to hear the broadcast, but it’s still buffering. Is that my computer or internet connection? Is there NE thing I can do about it?
Not too computer savvy…..

Finally got to hear it….

You did well. It was nice to hear your voice. You held it down better than some of the show’s cast. Your insight was on point, as usual.

Rebounding used to be the only way I could move on from a relationship. When I wanted to split with a guy, I had to have something else lined up before I could finally pull the plug. I just didn’t want to nor did I know how to be alone. I had some serious issues.

I’ve taken some time to be alone and it ain’t half bad. But now I’m lonely than a mutha. Lol. Anyway, I try not to date guys that have just broken up with girlfriends, yet seem ready to be in a new relationship. Men are a lot like women and keep going back to their comfort zone again and again leaving the reboundee lonely and confused. It’s hurtful.

Now, if both parties know what the deal is, you can both take comfort in each others company. NO ONE wants to be alone. If everyone is honest from the gate, you never know what things can turn in to.

I try not to judge and measure my new relationship by my previous one. My motto is to give a clean slate and go from there. I do always try to communicate with my new love about what the problems and challenges were and how to avoid them. Communication is the Key! My issues are usually what makes or breaks my relationships…I admit to ‘trust issues’ stemming from growing up with a philandering father. But I use common sense and rely a lot on my womanly instincts. For the most part, I find out early on in my relationships if things will work out and I dont like to waste precious time if we are not gonna be ‘friends’…~bs~

Leader of all things sock-related…..when’s the book coming out? It’s the next logical step! As much as I’ve read your posts, you always like to say that this is an all encompassing site, you discuss everything. But we must keep it funky with each other and realize that everyone loves the love/relationship/sex posts more than anything else. Buy a typewriter and do it “Love Jones” style…..

@Virgo

Actually there will be a book out by year’s end. (Notice the definitive language as opposed to I’ll try). As long as all goes according to plan, it’ll be something special for the faithful readers. And could consider it a “first nit” to clear my head so I can get down to a full fledged novel…

so hold tight

thanx for the nudge

I’m the NudgeMaster…”I does this”! lmao.
*Cue Mary J. & Jay-z’s “You’re Welcome” NOW*

Nice show!!!!!!!!

So I had a rebound relationship after being in an relationship for over 8 years. I told the guy in the beginning that I just got out of this long-term relationship. For me the rebound was great at first. I mean he kinda rebuild me up. i was hurt and just really trying to get over my ex. Old dude came in and saved the day and my friends loved him because he knew his place and played his position. Then after a couple of months, dude kinda got serious, and wanted to give me a key to is house, yada yada, sooo I cut it short because I saw he was catching feelings and I just wasn’t in that place in my life to start another relationship. But he was cool and he pops back on the map every once in a while but that’s it. So in my case the rebound was a great ego booster but not necessarily a help to get over my ex.

BTW, you did good on the show!