Good question.

Be honest, thats what I think. If your small don’t lie. If big don’t lie either (although I think most wouldn’t).

As far as marriage…not too sure. When it comes to sex, its a touchy subject. I believe that there’s more to life and relationships than sex. So perhaps I would still stay…there are toys and other things of that nature to help.

The world would be better if dudes would quit lyin, now quit lyin on Johnny!!! lol

I’m sure there is a too big, but I haven’t found any abnormally huge guys. I like a little more than average sized peen, but not too big. Average will get the job done.
Ol boy was wrong for pullin out the magnum on ya girl though and he knew damn well that didn’t fit. Don’t try to impress us with the gold wrapper if u aint a magnum man, u just gon make yourself look worse.

Well to be completely honest size does not matter but I have a serious problem with men who have an issue with their small size. For instance there was a guy I dated for close to two years who was rather average or maybe a little less. I’m not too sure what the average size is supposed to be. Well he periodically would talk about his lack of girth and I of course would tell him its okay.

You see size doesn’t matter to me because if I’m with a person and into the person its all great anyway. But the acceptance of a persons own body is annoying.

Oh, and guys who wear too big condoms are so lame and so off limits for me…slippage=disease…need I say more.

Oh, I did lie to a guy about his size before but that was only because he was a whiner and couldn’t handle the truth anyway so that was just to spare his feeling and give me time to run far away, lol.

Just about all the men I know carry around Magnums. I say to myself, “They can’t POSSIBLY all be that big.”

Work with what you got. A penis is not the only sign of manhood. Carrying around Magnums to compensate for a fragile ego and insecure manhood is wack, in my opinion.

OH yea. I know of a man who does use the gold package and its well deserved.

So there are a few out there that need it.

This one cracked me up because Ive had a couple experiences where some Magnum carriers were not worthy of carrying the shinny Gold package.

I’ve been getting my world rocked by an “average” man everyday for almost 2 years! I also think there is a such thing as too big, I remember when I lived in Memphis there was this guy with a 3rd leg…OMG is all I have to say! If I ever see that man again I’ll run!

I must say though that I’ve never lied to a man about his size. I just think it’s wrong to have someone out here thinkin’ he knockin it off when he ain’t even tickling the back.

Oh and I don’t think that I could go thru with marriage to a man that I too small AND don’t know what he’s doing. *Cringes @ the thought*

I haven’t been out there much, so I don’t know what average is. But I do think there is such a thing as too big. While I was in college, the puniest of men walked into my art class to be our live model for the day. I was like, “Where is Itty-Bitty Brotha going with his puny self. He must not have much to work with.” Boy was I wrong. Homeboy took off his clothes, and honey… Itty-Bitty Brotha suddenly became Big Daddy Schlong. Down to his knees, y’all. Down…to…his..knees, unerect. Damn.

In my opinion, people have to complement each other in order for the sex to be good, or great. Some women are wider and deeper than others, some have more sensitive, stronger, and tighter vaginal muscles (hello, Kegel). So what may fill one woman up and have her sweating out her perm and hitting the high notes may not do anything for another.

For me there’s so much more to a relationship than just sex. And it’s all about knowing what to do with what ya got to work with. I’ve had sloppy, unimaginative Magnum sex that to this day has me asking why did I even bother. So as long as we were making each other happy in and out of the bedroom, I wouldn’t care if he was just “average” in size.

And, Mis(ter)understood: You’re such a Capricorn. Always have to have the last word, eh?

I’ve dated a guy in the past who met the height requirement but was a little average in the package department..luckily he knew what he was doing and there wasn’t much of a problem. I do find that most men these days go around carrying magnums. Which doesn’t really make me excited at all.. Now a Magnum XL that’s something to maybe cringe, run..or get excited about. Men carry around Magnums so much its starting to be just like any other condom..
Le sigh

Funny blog. Its kinda craZy ’cause I went years rockin regular old trojans and they kinda hurt, but I just figured that the condom was that tight for a reason.
One night I was with a female friend and when we got into bed I put on a regular old trojan and I guess she saw me wince in pain when I put it on.
“Why don’t u just use a magnum?” she said. It was funny ’cause up until that point I never thought about it. Plus what if I put one on and it didn’t fit? How embrassing. Shit I won’t even try on a pair of pants at the store- I just get my size 34 and keep it moving.
Anyways, ‘ol girl had a condom drawer (”just in case”), whipped out a magnum and from that day on I’ve finally found my size and sex doesn’t hurt. Thank god! For me it isn’t about flaunting one’s size- its about straight up comfort.

LOL. I am not a size queen, although I appreciate the thick brothers.

Carrying the Gold Package as false advertisment will get you boo’d off the stage. I just can’t do it.
Why not? A man may be average, and rocking worlds, but the need to advertise a golden package shows that mentally he is not what I want, and there will be drama (insecurity always brings it) that I definately don’t need.

being a girl of significant stature (i’m six feet!) i almost require an above average-sized d*&k.

fortunately the man i’m dating now is so worthy of that shiny gold package.

i have, however, known lots of men who think they’ve got a lot more going on down there than they really do.

i’ve been one to stop an overly ambitious paramour mid-stroke if it’s not working for me. especially if they think they’re banging it out and i’m wondering if it’s even in.

cold, i know, but it’s a cold, cold world.

LOL @ Rob with the anaconda comfort.

Lol. That photo looks like my closet space. Lol. Good stuff.

I dated a guy with a below-average sized penis before who carried magnums. And he knew damn well his sh*t was small because he asked me about it, and I told him it was average (lie). He said he thought it could be bigger. I honestly couldn’t feel it. I really liked him too. It didn’t work out for other reasons, but i don’t think I could have married him.

Dominique,

I hope you mean the bottom pic because the top one would just be uncivilized. LOL No reusing

OMG! Can we just shame the dudes who try to pull this off? Not because of penis size, but stupidity. PSA: WEARING CONDOMS THAT DON’T FIT IS DANGEROUS.

Women should have no qualms shutting down the situation because a dude that is more concerned with posturing than sexual health and responsibility should NOT be getting any pussy.

That being said, false advertising is lame. If you feel you’re lacking in certain *ahem* areas, you should improve your skill set. PSA#2: The majority of women do not orgasm from penetration ALONE. Dudes, if you develop your personality, listening skills AND do some research as there are numerous books to give you insight. You should be good.

After all, the largest sexual organ is the brain.

I have came across some worthy and unworthy opponents in the 16 years I have been having sex. Some have been honest and some did not know that they were lying. They really thought they had the business in the pants. Yes there is a such thing as too big and a such thing as too small, but both are based on ones personal preference. Myself in particulare, I want to be able to continue to use what’s inbetween my legs when I am fifty. Big men seem to just pound away not taking the time to really please and then they go limp, speaking from personal experience, were as the average man, stays rock hard all night and can hit all those spots with out killing you. Now below average I can’t do, I’m a plus-sized woman, and a ity bity bug would just turn me off. I need to be at least have a mouthful, no pun intended, but the average females vagina is 5 1/2 inches deep, so 6-7 1/2 inches is perfect, 8-9 is too much for any hole.

Now, i know that there are a lot of things that keep a relationship going and I think sex is one of the most important ones. We live in a society that has mad Sex and finances the main reasons couples breakup, so if you got a man with some good dick and finances aren’t a problem, you probably have and will continue to have a great relationship.

But ladies you have to honest. If the man is not doing the dayum thing to you, you are going to have a problem sooner than later. And yes being in love makes sex better much better, but if you dont have anything to work with in the beginning or too much to work with, i think you should let that man know, so he does not come my way, slinging his too small or too big peni… All Hail the Average Penis…

PS#3: the condom wall at Babeland (www.babeland.com) sells them ala carte and in a variety of brands, materials and sizes. The staff is well educated and it’s not a creepy weird store.

Women: Don’t worry about people thinking you’re a slut or cockmonkey and stock up on an assortment just for safe keeping. Your health is more important than people’s perceptions and it’s better to be prepared than caught out there.

Men: Visit babeland. Ask them lots of questions and buy ones that fit. An education is a good look in and out of the bedroom.

To me sexual chemistry is just as important as our ability to communicate. I don’t know that I could marry a man that him & I lack sexual chemistry. Its not all about the size its about the chemistry and if he ain’t doing it for me it ain’t happenin…. if that were the case I’d be married now

Anyone who says that size does not matter is straight up lying, but what one considers average, small, and blessed varies with each woman. I have been intimidated by someone who I thought was too large and didn’t even let buddy get close to me after I saw what he was working with. I have also, had the pleasure of dealing with someone who had to carry the gold package and he very worthy of the responsibility that came with it. Average is fine anything smaller than that might be a problem because I need to know that something is in me, but even though you might be packing it doesn’t mean that you know what you are doing. Being physically blessed and then humping me like a jack rabbit is not what it is, you better know how to work all that meat you carrying around lol.

what should i b rocking in need some advice so hit me up

Laughing to myself–is that LTM?? All of my boys purchase trojans and trojans XL. Although I have no desire to inquire or check my boys situation below, I’m quite sure –purely from the laws of average–that not all are holding 8 plus which is about what the mags and mag XLs are proportioned to fit. Although I am a true member of the mag XL club, I don’t boast too loud–maybe loudly–because it had nothing to do with me —purely my pops and genetics. However, your post brings up a larger issue, How many females out there are “size queens”. During my college years and during my tours in night clubs, I think a lot of females are just as obsessed with size as brothas—I have bagged a number of females off the strength and curiosity that my 6′3 frame and size 13 sneaks create, and I know from empirical experience that when you are grinding on chicks in clubs and if they feel your package and like it the size, they are more apt to swing an episode.

LOL… Magnums are just a show off. When a man is truly above average he has to go to the porn shop and buys them specially constructed. Hope no one is carrying these Magnums, Trojans or whatever around in their hot little pockets FYI

Real Talk: I think in college I used to be one of those well endowed brothas with very little technique because I assumed that being big was enough, and that stretching it out and hitting the back/bottom was the only requirements. Thank god I met this sista who I dated for a minute and she enhanced my sex game. Now it is not always about breaking that back, its more about mutual climax. You live and you learn.

Well, I would like to applaud all of the brotha who are consistently using them bags, and the sistas who are strong enough to demand that their man used them tools. Despite all sick over representation with the HIV/AIDS category, too many blak folk are still going “raw-dangerous” –as I call us.

Ladies: I think we share the responsibility in this one, now how many times did you tell a man that he was “just fine” when he really wasn’t……. But honestly, too many men use their size as a come on because they think that is what women are looking for when it may not be. If women would stop boasting about having “12 inches” or close to it, men might have a little humility…..

I have been with what NWSO has termed “the Hummer” kind of guy and he didn’t know how to park or drive it. I also have had some that had a lil “Toyota” and that wasn’t quite right either (he gave great head though ) I have also had experiences where there was a lack of intimacy and passion, which is something that I crave, and that was why it was bad, not his size necessarily. I think size does matters to a certain extent, but it is not the end all to everything.

I read an interesting book last year called “Hung” and it was about how Black Men are supposed to live up to this reputation of having huge genitals and aslo having extremely high sexual apptitudes. The author described his first experience of having sex with a white girl, and how she expected him to be humongous, but was disappointed by him being just average. He said he felt like shit. Then the author talked to guys that were in th “top 10″ and how ostracized they felt because of their size. They did not want a girl to want to be with him simply because he was packin, or be admired for something he had nothing to do with. Something to think about…..

Ans, you kill me w/ these homie. Sweatagod, you’re the fuckin’ Seinfeld of the blogosphere…

That said…

Like distinguishedgentlewoman above — only from the male POV — I also had no idea what “average” was supposed to be. In fact, due to my (probably unhealthy) consumption of adult entertainment, my idea of average is probably not that average to begin with.

And it ain’t just porn that’ll fuck w/ a brotha’s self-image. Biology will do it too, as it wasn’t until I was well into my 20s that I found out the “growers vs. show-ers” phenomenon. In simplest terms, most men (70%, according to WebMD, lol) are show-ers, that is, their flaccid penises look big enough to prove the point, while the rest (of us! haa!) are growers, who might like to nap in the firehouse, but once that bell rings, you’d be warned to keep that ass back at least 200 feet.

Really ain’t a problem most times. I mean, I don’t make a living as an underwear model. And sometimes, it even makes for memoir- or NWSO comment-worthy fare. Case in point:

Once linked up with a young lass down in Miami, who felt no shame in moving faster than me once we got to my hotel room. Without warning, she grabbed for the goods —

“Aw…word?!”

I just smiled, letting the Latino blood flow do its thang, until –

“Oh. WORRRRD…”

But with regards to ill-fitting Mags and other delusions of grandeur, like Rob, I spent an ungodly portion of my sex life gritting my teeth in pain from tight-ass Rough Riders and Trojans. Switched brands a couple times. Durex. Nope. Lifestyles, better, depending on what kind.

One day, a homie mentions Magnums, and I kept thinking I’d be playing myself for even trying. But fuck it, what’s a few bucks and the possibility of some random chick smirking.

Lo and behold, it fit like a glove, pun very much intended.

But did that somehow validate me? Remember, my predilection for porn had me thinking I’d never get to star opposite Jennifer Luv or Ice La Fox, Magnums notwithstanding. And yet, more than a few womenfolk have complimented me — or even complained about ol’ Chuck Hustle.

At the same time, I can remember two or three women who made me feel like I was tryna throw a golf ball through an inner tube.

And that’s when it hit me: Except for a small percentage on both sides of the spectrum, it’s not only all relative, but we’re all a lot more “average” than we might want to believe.

I used to think that size didn’t matter. But I think I was just use to being with guys that were 8.5 plus. Anyways, a few months back, I was with a guy. I liked him but nothing major. He happened to show me his “oral speaking skills” so I thought to myself on his third ‘conversation’ “why not, have sex with him, if he’s this great orally then he must be better with his manpart” Boy was I wrong…. I am certain he was less than average, but then again I don’t know what average is. Bottom-line is it was too small. I couldn’t feel anything, and I could barely see anything. I figured that since I liked him I could give him a doover, I did and it was equally as unfulfilling. I gave up. Thus I came to the resolution that size does matter for me.

I want to feel what you’re working with. I don’t think that I would marry someone that couldn’t please me sexually. It’s not all about sex to me, but that’s why the physical pleasure has to be good. It takes a lot to get me to that level, and when I finally get there I don’t want to be disappointed.

Oh Yea, I wouldn’t lie to a guy about his package, I may not comment on it to spare his feelings. But if he pisses me off severely enough I may crush his ego.

I don’t know if there is such a thing as ‘too big’ in the penis department. Scientifically, no man is too big. If I ever come across one then that’ll be a story to tell.

OOOO NWSO,

You haven’t disappointed me yet!

Indeed there is absoultey nothing wrong w/”Mr. Average Guy”, but just like your homegirl, what a disappointment when you see that gold wrapper come out of someone’e wallet or back pocket to get disappointed when he should only carry Trojens or LifeSyles! Definetly misrepresentation!

I wonder can you sue for that? Will that hold in court?

Imagine that!

LMAO @ “Seinfeld of the blogosphere” !

All I know is, some of them oversized magnums aint even the real deal! Ask Jadakiss…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMyGLWn89Og

@distinguishedgentlewoman

Word. A man is much greater than the sum of his part.

@lyrik

There is such a thing.

That is all.

OMG! Your last post was Hilarious! Personally- I was with one that was a bit extra large and tell u the truth it hurt like a mugg for a few months! Average for the most part but as long as he works it right- that’s all you need!!! Oh, and a Lil Bit of Face seals the deal!! Ive never been with a ’small’ dude but apparently (one of my girls was) that ole saying “it dont matter the size of the ship just the motion in the ocean” – - well my girl says “you cant cross the seas in a canoe” !!!
I am happily married and i do think that sex is important- very important. But if you & your partner are in tune- you are in tune sexually, emotionally and mentally. !! They all come in hand w/ each other!!

Yes there is such a thing as too big! My ex was almost too big for the Magnum XL, and definitely too long. Could have been death by stab wound to the uterus… really.

The one I love also fits a Magnum XL nicely, although he claims the Mangum regular fits too.

I once dated a guy who was so small that even a regular condom was baggy. That’s too small…

So I had posted a question the other day with regards to crooked penis and me being too shallow, however, I neglected to say not only was it shaped like 9:30, it was skinny, and it faced down! WTF! How does that happen? Had sex 3x that night hoping it was a fluke and would straighten out! No dice. Not one to crush a man’s spirit, I didn’t run for the hills rather I said with just the right position maybe ol’ boy could hit it just right. (*__*)
Again, no dice. In fact, it was fucking hitting the underside of my belly!

So, can this “relationship” go any further? Don’t think so… furthermore it’s already tainted: developed a full-blown yeast infection 2 days later – dude’s johnson was scratching up all of my insides! LMBAO but not really. (*__*) Plus could you imagine that tongue depressor gagging me? Blech, it would fit perfectly there, though!

With regards to a dick being too big, been there as well. Now his would grow; sometimes too long, sometimes just right and it was at those times a sista was happy – I would say just shy of the directv remote! lol! Good times…

Oh Hell yea I have to add my piece. I remember I was with a man who liked to ask that question, ladies you know that question….”baby you like this BIG DICK” ? Well I opened my eyes, feeling confused and taking a slight pause. I had to look at him because he must have been asking me about some other guy. It definitely was NOT HIM. So what was my response…..”uh uh uh i guess so.” Yes I had to lie. That was some experience. So fellas please if you don’t have a BIG ONE don’t ask that question…and wear your size
Another experience i had was with a guy who was actually well endowed but he didnt know what to do with all that meat. He was horrible. I guess he felt he didnt have to work that hard because of his size.

On the other hand I knew a guy who was as small as my thumb and he rocked my world giving me the ultimate big O..over and over again. Go figure

I wonder if Magnums are truly for larger men. I do think it was probably a marketing strategy by Trojan and insecure men ate it up. I was with a guy who wore Magnums and he was lucky if he was six inches when fully erect; and he wasn’t all that thick either. They never slipped off once…I was shocked. I think condoms are technically one size fits all, and I think Magnums are no different.

LMAO @ Hanna. 9:30? Hahahahahaha. WTF indeed.

Nice post, funny, but I am happy with my size. (I’m not saying how big I am). I know what size condom fits me. If someone doesn’t like it oh well. I am wonderfully and fearfully made and I am happy. now I don’t carry condoms right now because I have no need for them, but come on dude, non hates a liar. Don’t lie about your size be happy with what you have and know how to use it when you do get ready to put it down.

oh yeah and let me correct myself i meant to a woman hates a liar *

While size matters, there is nothing worse than an man with a large “peter” and doesn’t know what to do with it, or cannot control his flow(premature ejaculation).

I believe knowing how to do it is most important.

LMAO…you know, I am a size queen who has been beat over the head by folks because I would keep different “sizes” on hand just in case. Some brothers are “mind over matter” when it comes to size, thinking that you would believe the hype when they pull out the gold and black wrapper. But the truth is that everything ain’t for everybody. And just because they are less than average in size does not mean they can’t please someone in the sack….just not me…

And condoms are not one size fits all…foreals…they make different sizes for a reason…

I am fortunate enough to encounter men that need magnums. Size does matter. Maybe some women have small vaginas and feel an average dick is nice.Oh well.

My on again off again FB is average and I have no complaints whatsoever but i would like to settle with a guy that requires a magnum.You said you wanted honesty.

There is too big…I had a lover that was a lil over 9 inches and it was uncomfortable.Enough so that I didn’t pursue him too heavy.And magnum were tight for him when he was fully hard.And I have had a lover that didn’t quite flll out one-size-fits-most…I didn’t even feel the motion in the ocean.That lasted a very, very short time ((no pun intended))

An old college fling came through with some Magnums was a major disappointment for many reasons.

First of all he put it on backwards and wasted 2 condoms trying to figure it out. Mind you we were both over 30 at the time. Yikes! I figured it must have been a while. But dayum!

I remember suggesting a non-latex condom because sometimes reg condoms cause irritations to my body and he was like oh I can ONLY wear Magnums. I was looking at his package like dude pah-leaze.

Turned out to be THE lamest sex I ever had. He never called and neither did I. He knew his -ish was wack. But it wasn’t wack because he was small. It was wack because he was selfish. He didn’t even go down. Boo! I understand some men like to save that for their special lady but get over it. If you gonna do the damn thing go hard or go home!

Average dudes are cool with me. But in general I think men need to be freer to mix it up in the bedroom and try new ish. Don’t come at me with the same ol’ dick. Can you show me something new?

I have to say, Im DEVASTATED that you got here first, as i have been trying to blog about this topic for MONTHS!! Its just as hilarious as i thought it would be.

I was utterly baffled as to the the nature of Baggy Condom Epidemic. It seems so counterintuitive to let ur ideas about an ill- fitting condom get in the way of good sex. Then my homegirl broke the code. If theyre doing THIS in every Family Dollar, then THIS is why so many doods are wearing them!

http://twitpic.com/189a1

Next to the Crybabys? REALLY??

there was actually an article in gq or maxim (one of those men’s mags) where a trojan rep admitted that there really was no difference in size between regular rubbers and “magnums”…it was all just a matter of cut and advertising…mental psych out i think…

Size absolutley matters! The most important thing ( I have found ) in a relationship is sex. That’s #1 on my list. If you don’t have a great sexual relationship you are very likely to go somewhere else and get that fulfillment. I’m keeping it real. Size is very important. Sorry to all you small-sized men in the world, but if it’s tiny I can’t work with you. It has to be a little above average. Too large is just painful and uncomfortable. As for the magnum thing…Men are insane with that. I’ve dealt with men that say they can wear mangums, carry them around, and don’t even come close to filling them up. It literally feels like he put a balloon on his penis, and it frightens us women. There’s nothing worse than the sound of a deflated balloon going in and out of you. I have made a man stop and call everything off in the middle of the act for that reason. It’s too risky. I would never marry a man that was tiny or below average. I know I would eventually go somewhere else to get that satisfaction, you have to be able to please one another. If can’t please each other it’s a wrap on your relationship. And a man better know what he’s doing with it regardless of size. If you are larger in size and you don’t know what to do with it…it’s such a waste of a good penis. Don’t get me wrong I love to be the teacher, I’m very vocal about what I want, I’ll give you the Instruction Manual, but it’s up to you to put it together. I can’t coach you entirely it’s a real turn off. What I don’t get MEN…is don’t you know when you put those Magnum’s on the first time that they don’t fit! Why would you keep doing it? You have to know that we know that they aren’t fitting, wouldn’t you be embarrassed?

*wiping tears from eyes…then sighs*
Damn, I’ve been laughin from the 1st post til the last on this one NWSO…
If you know you’re small, then be real about it. Wear your size. I had this one guy, I knew he was small…he knew he was small, but tried to play it off. Im sure the ladies who have been there can vouch for me on this one….
FELLAS, enjoyable sex does not include me peeking between my thighs w/ every pump to make sure ur raincoat is still on!! Just like ole girl said above…You will be stopped and asked NOT to continue.
Give me some passion, deep kissing, caressing, extended foreplay…and if ur jimmy fits like a cashmere glove…then it may not make for a perfect evening…but damn near close..lol.

Now I’ve got a story….
A male acquaintance of mine had a crush on my homegirl..so he asks me to hook him up with her.I told him ahead of time that my girl likes “Gold Pack Wearers”.(Mind you..I’d never seen what he was packin..never had a desire to know). We chill @ my house so they can get to know each other in a neutral environment..then things get…..um *scratches head* COMICAL. Apparently my girl got a look @ the goods ahead of time and was not impressed….BUT he felt the need to show her that he was a “grow-er”…is that the right term?
Well the funny part came when he asked me to run to the store to grab him some condoms (no I dont usually do this for guys tryin to bang my homegirl…lol) but when I asked him what kind he needed….he said MAGNUMS…Im thinkin to myself…”dude, if only u knew what my girl said about ur stump…lol”.
But i obliged and got him the condoms…and needless to say…he couldnt make much use of them because he couldnt get Mr Happy up to even ATTEMPT to fill the Magnum.
When it was all said and done…he had the nerve to be mad @ me for not getting him the right size condoms!!! ROFLMBAO!!!!!

Men stop bein so insecure about what u have. Ladies stop demandin some ish u may not be able to take. Big meat doesnt equal a full meal…Brother could be slangin for days…BUT his meat might be “undercooked” (done in 10 min or less). Or you may have an “appetizer” type man…and hell ur full before the entree gets there…LOL. Its about listenin to ur partner and knowing what they like and dont like..instead of assuming a sexual prowess that may not be “fully developed”..and yeah i meant that in all its forms of pun-tivity..lol

as for marrying a man that is perfect in all ways but his package…… would you buy a car with out test driving it and being totally satisfied with your choice? i know that sounds harsh, but i couldnt marry someone whose package didn’t please me.

i have had my world rocked to my ultimate surprise when at first finding the anticipated size was not as big as i was eagerly awaiting, but that average to a bit below average took me for 8 rounds and had me squirting 6 of them…. way to go to the average size men who know how to do it right…. and YES there is a thing a TOO BIG….

hell i prefer on the larger end of average myself, but ectasy comes in all sizes and forms, but most of all is once we can tap into our mental relaxation and subspace that we find the greatest pleasures.

Average length, straight, circumcized, as thick as it can be………would be the best.
I hate too small and too big.

Finally… the solution to the dilemna… here is how you men (and ladies) can tell if you need a Magnum… when your man’s johnson is erect… see if you can slide an empty toilet paper roll over it… with approx. 90% of men you will have no problems.

If you CAN’T slide it on… it’s MAGNUM TIME!!! This is a tip straight out of Men’s Health magazine. And it’s true… tried it.

Hope this helps!

p.s. It’s not the size it’s the motion/technique (unless you’re working with under 5 inches)

Men say women lie about weight. Well, we know the reverse for men is penis size/height! One smart thing is for the woman to carry the condoms herself. That way, she ensures that the right one is used on him.

In the heat of the moment, he’ll never notice what she has placed on him. All he will be thinking is that he is happy to be getting laid!

Well Size does matter, but not in the way that guys think it should. I had a guy so big that it hurt and I had to teach him how to be gentle with the weapon he was slinging around. I had another boyfriend who was large and in charge but only worked the middle, per say, because he was large but not because he had any technique. And I have had two boyfriends who Need Jesus and a prayer to ever stop pissing on their nuts because they were small( and I am NOT exaggerating), but oddly enough…. I got clitoral orgasams from them. And their lip service deserved medals from the President. It all boils down to pleasing your partner, that individual and not thinking that you have to lie. The lights maybe off, she may be blind, but she can feel when you cant fill, ya dig? Just be honest and hopefully she will be honest back with you. Because if Magnum and P-shooter were synonomous… they wouldnt be two seperate words….lol

Ok I cannot say that bigger is better, it just fills you out. Bigger does tend to hurt more and doesn’t mean the sex will be great. I’ve had a guy who was large and in charge when it came down to it but he didn’t hold up his end of the bargain. 5-8 mins was not pleasing me…sorry big boy. Needed someone that could needless to say hang.

I like em big, but just don’t hurt me.

I believe that penises are very different, they come in different sizes. I have heard from my girlfriends that width and girth is better than length. No woman wants to be poked with a spaghetti strand if you get my drift. Gotta have enough meat on the package.

Ladies, does size really matter?
Yes it does…if you’re too big (which I have experienced) the moment can be painful for a woman…and if a girl isn’t doing her Kegel exercises, if you are a smaller man then she will feel like you’re floating inside of her.

Have you ever had your world rocked by an “average” or “smaller” man?
I love average men…I’m a “small” woman so don’t need anything to big or thick… average works for me.

Is there such a thing as too big?
See comment above.

Would you marry a man that was perfect in every way except his package?
As long as he knew how to work what he was blessed with then yes.

Have you ever been let down by a man that walked around with Magnums or claimed to be big daddy when he wasn’t?
The one man I knew who carried Magnums definitely knew what he was doing.

Really getting tired of woman who goes around claiming her sex with big guy was terrible.I think is a myth some people enjoy spending on the net and magazine

The smallest penis I wanna see is an “average”size penis. Anything smaller than that I can’t feel therefore I can’t possibly get satisfied..NO MATTER how much you like to lick!! I am a woman that needs to be banged good over Licked. And If he is average it would help if he is also good because this is when I believe the saying “Its not the size of the ship but the motion of the
ocean.” I also don’t believe just cause a man is “large” that he is “in charge”. Most large men can’t get the “motion of the ocean” right and are lazy in the bed. However, ateast I can ride him, make it good on my own and still climax. No matter the size most penis can be worked with. My saying is “ITS NOT HOW DEEP YOU DROP YOUR HOOK, BUT HOW YOU WIGGLE YOUR WORM” And by the way, MNUTE MEN r the ultimate WORSE!!!

J.B.